jwallace1986 Posted October 31, 2010 Posted October 31, 2010 ok heres the situation...broke up with my ex of 6 months about month ago due to the fact she still has feelings for her ex even though she has no intention of getting back together with him. She said shes developed genuine feelings for me and im not a rebound, and didnt want to break up at all (i basically initiated the break up) but realises its not fair on me that she still has feelings for him and needs time to get over him. Since weve broken up however, ive not contacted her once but she has been contacting me constantly!! tellin me how much she misses me and wants to get back together. She practically begged me to see her and i cracked twice, and theres definitely feelings still there when we were together. However i know it would be stupid to jump back into the relationship because shes obviously still not over her ex after a month and admitted that herself. Its killing me though because she rings texts and fbook msgs me nearly every day!! im thinking about just going completely non contact with her for a while i.e delete her on fbook and delete her number and ask her to do the same? Not out of spite obviously just so im out of her life for the time being? What you guys think?? any advice or thoughts would be great!
coltsfan1 Posted November 1, 2010 Posted November 1, 2010 answer her phone call and tell her the truth, then see how things go she might just choose you. does she talk about her ex while you two spent time together? does she still talk to her ex?
Trovador Posted November 1, 2010 Posted November 1, 2010 Same situation here, but without the ex... she wants me around all the time... I told her that she could call me again only if she was 100% sure and willing about a fresh start... guess what? She hasn't contacted me nor she won't...
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