llits Posted October 31, 2010 Posted October 31, 2010 Hello everyone, I broke up with my gf about a month ago. After 2 weeks of being single, I realized I like my friend that I've known for about 3 years. I told her that we don't really know a whole lot about each other because we never really hang out, and it'd be cool if we could hang out more often. The way I told her, however, made it sound like I was already looking for another girlfriend. She said she didn't have any feelings like that. I didn't expect her to because we hardly ever hung out. After a day of us feeling awkward, I confronted her about it and told her what I meant. Of course I didn't tell her that I may have feelings. She said everything was fine between us, but I feel that she's been avoiding me lately. I'm sure this has something to do with this guy that she's liked for about 2 years. (She'd always come to me for advice and how to handle things, and that's how we became so close as friends) And I understand that. Theres nothing wrong with that. But this guy plays head games with her, (Like leading her on, and telling her he's changing his ways, etc.) and that keeps her coming back to him. He basically has her wrapped around his finger, and she knows this. She's completely aware but she's so in love with him. I can't say anything of course, because I don't want to risk my friendship with her, but I just feel this guy doesn't deserve to have any girl with him. Is there anything I could possibly do to stop this guy from having his way with her again?
utterer of lies Posted October 31, 2010 Posted October 31, 2010 Is there anything I could possibly do to stop this guy from having his way with her again? Leave her alone. You want her. She doesn't want you. All this talk about friendship and 'he's not good for her' is just a way for you to justify your emotions.
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