nice-easy-day Posted October 31, 2010 Posted October 31, 2010 I've been getting to know a girl the last couple weeks and I'm hoping it turns into something romantic. So far so good I think. We live in different towns which means we see each other on the weekends and maybe once during the week if I'm really lucky. Anyway, she called me the other day and we talked for over two hours about a bunch of stuff including something difficult she was going through. After we hung up she sent me some texts saying how she thinks I'm a great listener; I'm sweet; and feels like she could talk to me for hours on end. ect ect. So girls, if you said that to a guy what is going on in your head? Something tells me this is code for "guy friend".
TouchedByViolet Posted October 31, 2010 Posted October 31, 2010 I'm a guy and yes sounds like the "guy friend" to me. Have you made out with her?
Els Posted October 31, 2010 Posted October 31, 2010 No way to know except by making a romantic move yourself, is there?
Author nice-easy-day Posted October 31, 2010 Author Posted October 31, 2010 Have you made out with her? Just a quick kiss goodbye on the cheek she initiated the last 2 times we saw each other. We've only been together a few times. She's expressed that taking things slow is preferred so I'm not pushing anything.
TouchedByViolet Posted October 31, 2010 Posted October 31, 2010 Just a quick kiss goodbye on the cheek she initiated the last 2 times we saw each other. We've only been together a few times. She's expressed that taking things slow is preferred so I'm not pushing anything. Ok this is what you do... Next time you see her you kiss her on the lips immediately and make out. If she is interested you will know, if not time to move along. Sounds like you have already been friend zoned though.
Author nice-easy-day Posted October 31, 2010 Author Posted October 31, 2010 No way to know except by making a romantic move yourself, is there? Right you are! But I'd rather get to know the girl first instead of jumping in head first. All my past relationships went from 0-100 in 5.4 seconds flat only to hit a brick wall. I'm afraid of taking things too slow and becoming a "guy friend". I guess it's a risk that I'll have to take.
Author nice-easy-day Posted October 31, 2010 Author Posted October 31, 2010 Ok this is what you do... Next time you see her you kiss her on the lips immediately and make out. If she is interested you will know, if not time to move along. Sounds like you have already been friend zoned though. I agree but here is the thing. She was telling me how she tells her g/f's not to make out with a guy on the first few dates because they won't respect you. True or not is besides the point. I took it as code for she doesn't want me, or maybe any guy for that matter to be all over her right away. Some girls are like that believe it or not. I've dated a few of them.
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