9Lives Posted October 31, 2010 Posted October 31, 2010 (edited) After we have screw each others brain out...LOL Now that I'm dating, I'm getting that fresh start with picking a partner so I thinks that's hot. I checkout the marraige and partner forum and it got interesting what marraiges and ltr expeience once all the newness and whatnot wears off. We jellying now so from what I saw on the other side of the single life is a lot of things I don't think about while I'm out here being my sexy single self. There are some conversations I could be having to even determine if this person is going to be a future companion or more. For one, finances? You don't have to be rich but how responsible are u with money. Two...messy or sloppy? I can't stand a messy house..omg!!! Three...family life? Does evrything your mom say goes or do u hate your family Four...sex? Some people said their partner stop giving it up....wtf? Nothing like a cold bed/ There are other things going on but I don't have them all. See this is one of he great things about being single that I love! The money is all mines. If I screw up, its me. I can sex around if I want to. My place is always clean. I only got to fight with my family. Plus I get the chance to weigh out the relship thing with more experience than before! I love it... So while u out here doing your thang, are u taking certain things into consideration. Besides you are lonely and need a man or sex or whatever. Edited October 31, 2010 by 9Lives
Author 9Lives Posted October 31, 2010 Author Posted October 31, 2010 See this is why I kinda like to sloww it down. I know that I'm down for sex when I meet some men. I know as soon as I look at him and how he looking I want to give him some but that's not enough.we all have issues but some issues I can deal with. I'm not saying kill the buzz or mystery or passion or intrigue....but in the back of my mind, I'm wondering who the hell are u... I guess since I been hurt real bad one time by totally trusting someone, I'm more cautious than I use to be. I don't like people who hold grudges long when we are together...silient treatment! Someetimes u have to let emotions calm down but how long? Did he cheat a lot on his girlfriends? Old habits are hard to break sometimes
Disillusioned Posted October 31, 2010 Posted October 31, 2010 Being supportive of each other. Everything else is just icing on the cake. If one or both partners is unsupportive and selfish, that marriage is not long for this world. I've seen it.
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