jennatu Posted October 31, 2010 Posted October 31, 2010 My ex colleague and I at my previous work place. He is nice to everyone, and was especially nice to me, he asked me to lunch and coffee. Eventually a few weeks before the end of my term at that work place, he asked me out to golf, tennis and bike riding. Initially it was with a group, but gradually just the two of us. He invite me out to lunch and paid for me, so I invited him out to dinner, and he gladly came, and won't let me pay! It seem to get along so well, and often we would touch on the topic of relationship, and this is where things gets muddy. He always say "when i am single..." but never specified that he's actually single. His team mate actually told me he has a girlfriend a few weeks back, but he never mentioned her in any of our length and personal conservations. He does mention that he never dumped any of his ex-girlfriend, but try to convince them to leave him, and they all did it on their free will. A friend of mine is saying if this keep on going, we are going to hit the friendship zone, and i don't wanna be just friends?! What should I do? Ask him directly if he's single? My gut feeling is that he is not single. what if he says yes? Does that mean I should just move on? But he's once in a million catch and i don't wanna give up! I would appreciate if someone could decipher this for me: Who I date, is all about the right timing.
Cee Posted October 31, 2010 Posted October 31, 2010 You answered your own question. Yes, ask him if he's single. If he's not single, move on. If he is single, then it's game on.
9Lives Posted October 31, 2010 Posted October 31, 2010 Yeah I would ask him. He seems like the beat around the bush kind of guy aand if u guys been talking a lot, its weird the chic is not mentioned. See whts up. Don't make a big deal out of it cause if he hasn't officially came on to u, he could say I was just be friendly to u and u took it the wrong way. Guys be tryna be slick like that sometimes.
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