Soronery Posted October 31, 2010 Posted October 31, 2010 Hi all. Happy Halloween for those who are out and about. I'm interested in a women and wanted to ask for advice on how to ask her out . I'm find when it comes to dealing with people, but as soon as I start to have feelings or even just wanting to ask a person out, I stutter, clam up and am not myself. I've worked with this women but do not work with her if that makes any sense. So I have conversed, even gotten her cell number and she smiles, looks me in the eye etc. But it could from her point of view be nothing more than just being a pleasant and kind women. I'd like to send her a text to thank her for her recent assistance regarding an order I made with her company. But was thinking I'd love to also ask her out for a coffee, fruit smoothie or my fav an ice chocolate. I can handle her saying no. I just dont' want to come across as a doofus or a douche. I don't mind coming across as a shy guy, as that's how I am with people I'm not familiar with. So guys, gals, help a shy guy out here . Suggestions? Do's and dont's. As a PS. I'm out of my comfort zone here. I've only ever dated girls I've known or been in my circle of family, friends etc. So this is new territory for me
callingyouuu Posted October 31, 2010 Posted October 31, 2010 Will you have to work with her in the future? If so, trying to date her might get a little bit sticky... If not or you're just ok with that: Do: Call her, thank her for whatever that was, and ask her out! Do: Keep it short and sweet, and make sure to have a date and time in mind. Do: And this is key to not being a douche, if she says no, thank her for her time, and then politely end the conversation. Don't make a big deal out of it. Don't: Text her. If you plan on asking her out, call. Better impression. Don't: No fruit smoothies, unless if you're in middle school. Don't: Stop thinking. In your case, thinking and overanalyzing her reactions to everything you say just causes more shyness. There is a girl who seems nice. You want to know if she'd like to get coffee with her some time. That's all you need to know. Good luck!
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