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Dating safety tips?


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Does anyone have any tips (besides obvious ones) that I can use as a guy to prevent myself from getting charged with false accusations of sexual assault, harassment, etc.?

 

Also, do any of you guys worry about this when going on dates?

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It's not such a big deal dating, but when meeting strange women out, if you are inclined to take one home, make sure others you know see her demeanor towards you and if possible, have third party witnesses that she was relatively sober when you left together.

 

Have sex in beds in houses where possible, yours or hers. Cars, others' houses, bathrooms, etc. are riskier for false rape or assault claims.

 

But really, there isn't much you can do about it. False claims of rape and sexual assault are politically incorrect issues for discussion so they are largely swept under the rug and there isn't much organized dialogue anywhere.

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Well you may think this is an obvious one (and I don't know you so please don't think I'm casting aspersions) but listen carefully for the word 'no'.

 

Women have physical desires just as men do but sometimes, just because their body reacts in a certain way to being touched, it doesn't mean they 'want you' in their head. If you hear a woman use the word 'no' at any time, stop what you're doing.

 

You can even double check if you think it wasn't a serious no, but please don't ignore it. Never get so wrapped up in your own physical pleasure that you're become unaware of how the woman is feeling. This is far more likely to happen during a one time dating encounter than in a relationship because in such instances most guys are there for themselves.

 

As I said, I have no to reason believe you're not a very good guy, but you asked for tips and that's the best one I can give you.

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The best way to avoid trolls is to ignore them.

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