Confused_Soul Posted October 31, 2010 Posted October 31, 2010 Hey all, Here's my story .. Met a girl, fell in love the usual stuff.. Things were hunky dory till one day she tells me there s no future possible cos her parents are gonna pick her life partner. ( Happens a lot here in India ). I was devastated and thot we shud call it off since thers no future.. But then she got me into the whole "lets live for the moment" thing and so we continued our relship and got very close and intimate as well. Now D-day's finally come and her parents hv found this rich guy for her to marry and i am heart-broken and not able to get this, despite knowin that this relationship had a very small shelf life .. She's already replaced me and is gettin to know tat other guy and they hv become very close also.( meet a few times and say yes, tats how arranged mariages work in india). But whenevr she's not with him, she calls me up and tels me she's stil in love wid me and stuf like that and ultimately we hook up.. She ll anyways move on wid her life after they get married. But will i ever move on if i just fall back in her arms every time she gives me a call and we hook up ?? Should i just cut her out from ma life altogether in order to move on ??
gemmie Posted October 31, 2010 Posted October 31, 2010 Hey Confused, What a painful situation, but if that is the way it has to be, then there is nothing you can do about it. You should love herself and yourself enough to let go. You deserve to find someone that you adore, as horrible as it sounds, because at the moment that person is her. But she can never be truly yours. Sure she can sneak in moments with you, but is that what you want? A part time love you have to hide away? Also, she is becoming a cheater if she is going behind her fiance's back. You deserve better than what she can offer. I would cut it right off and invest time into trying to broaden your horizon so you have the opportunity of meeting someone that's right for you. Best of luck.
Author Confused_Soul Posted October 31, 2010 Author Posted October 31, 2010 Hey gemmie, Thanks for your re-assuring words and advice. Yes i do care for her a lot, but it wont be right to continue this for either of us. I dont want 2 be just a shoulder to cry on and booty call wenevr she needs some on the side and i dont want her 2 commit adultery as well. I will just have to admit that she can never be truly mine and finally move on with my life though its gonna be really tough We should be with someone who cares for us openly .. Hope i can find someone who reciprocates the amount of love and care that i tend to always give in any relationship.
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