Gt.ooh Posted October 31, 2010 Posted October 31, 2010 WOO! I just got a nasty FB msg from the ex.. he's there in Toronto... I can put my mind to ease, and start the hunt again because I don't need that bullcrap in my life any longer. Cheers, and Happy Halloween.
strength-abounds Posted October 31, 2010 Posted October 31, 2010 I'm sorry GT. Now is your time to go after what you want in this life. Go get it dude and don't stop until you're there. Good luck.
Leandro Posted October 31, 2010 Posted October 31, 2010 WOO! I just got a nasty FB msg from the ex.. he's there in Toronto... I can put my mind to ease, and start the hunt again because I don't need that bullcrap in my life any longer. Cheers, and Happy Halloween. So she just sent you a message on FB out of no where?
Author Gt.ooh Posted October 31, 2010 Author Posted October 31, 2010 (edited) No he sent me one because she's too selfish, and guilty that she couldn't even tell me. It hurts a little today now that the alcohol from last nights party is wearing off, but I knew it all along now it can lay it to rest. They were made for each other, guy has a restraining order on him from her, two thumbs up there.. they can have it. I DON'T need that crap. I'll definitely continue my LS reading and posting giving advice, and maybe some people to lean on, because now the true healing can begin...It will still be tough at times, but no more worrying, wondering, hoping, pining. Thanks guys. PS: I'm sure there'll be some msgs exchanged still, but it doesn't bother me. I'm the better person here by a mile. Edited October 31, 2010 by Gt.ooh
Leandro Posted October 31, 2010 Posted October 31, 2010 Wow. That was pretty mean of her to get him to do it. You deserve better!
Author Gt.ooh Posted October 31, 2010 Author Posted October 31, 2010 Indeed my friend, no one can believe this crap. All I want is honesty and I would have taken my furniture and everything from the start 2 months ago and been done.. Pretty low of the lows man.. All I can say is I've been taking advantage of my good nature...so to all the good guys out there, watch your back... you could just be on a train to no-where but down in the dumps.. I lost 10,000 and I'm in the hole 2500 now, because of this B****
Author Gt.ooh Posted October 31, 2010 Author Posted October 31, 2010 I don't want a relationship for a long time...I'm focusing on myself now, and going to let things happen..I'm not looking for a girl right now, I just think what happened to me..and I don't want anything to do with that.
Leandro Posted October 31, 2010 Posted October 31, 2010 yea take some time off. Work on you and get out of hole. Start saving and all.
Author Gt.ooh Posted October 31, 2010 Author Posted October 31, 2010 Yea, that's the plan. I am going to go back there and take away my damn furniture so she or he can't enjoy it. I'd rather give it someone who needs it then someone that screwed me over royally. Then I can really say F u! I got a few connections back there, and my flights already paid for as I had them booked for December for Christmas. I can stay for free at old boss' house, and he said he'll help me get the furniture out of the condo. Then I'll feel really good about myself.
Leandro Posted October 31, 2010 Posted October 31, 2010 Yea, that's the plan. I am going to go back there and take away my damn furniture so she or he can't enjoy it. I'd rather give it someone who needs it then someone that screwed me over royally. Then I can really say F u! I got a few connections back there, and my flights already paid for as I had them booked for December for Christmas. I can stay for free at old boss' house, and he said he'll help me get the furniture out of the condo. Then I'll feel really good about myself. Alright. After that you will no longer have any reason to contact her, so it should help you move on faster.
Author Gt.ooh Posted November 1, 2010 Author Posted November 1, 2010 Got an update for you guys... Her mom emailed me, and she just found out yesterday this guy was there. (like me).. She said my ex wouldn't have told them either but they have a sick family member in T-dot, and her Grandma is flying out there for support so she had to tell her. Her mom is NOT happy, and she said she hopes that she didn't tell me because she didn't want to hurt me more, that's what she wants to believe. What a joke guys.. how low can you go to have to hide it from your family.
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