Kbeera Posted October 30, 2010 Posted October 30, 2010 Why has he contacted his ex? Hey, I hope you can help.I am consumed with anger and guilt and it's driving me mad. The other day my bf was using my phone to use facebook. He had left it logged in and in his inbox. Normally I would have just logged out however I noticed there was an email from his ex titled "coffee". I am not proud of what I have done and feel incredibly guilty, but I did read it. I knew my bf had added his ex as he told me so it did not really surpise me that they were messaging . My bf and I have been together for 2 years and he had been out of contact with his ex almost a year before we got together. Therefore I was not ulitmatley worried as I know with ex's it can be coriousity more than anything. Anyway in this email he had asked his ex if she was free for a coffee sometimes. His ex replied no I hope you understand. He said to her no problem I understand. If I'm honest it was hard not to react, but I did ask him if he had heard from her. He said no (he had contacted her once before as she was at a friend funeral and he wanted to ask how she knew my fried. When he told me this i did get upset, so maybe that's why he said no). After denying contact he said he was going to delete her anyway as he had had a snoop and no longer wanted to look into the past but the future with me. I have been trying to just ignore the whole thing as I know you never really know what people mean through text or emails. I just need someone elses perspective, should I be concern? And if she had not said no would he have met her and not think about deleting her? PLEASE HELP x
Don Ho Posted October 30, 2010 Posted October 30, 2010 I think you should not say anything but keep your radar on.
atage26 Posted October 31, 2010 Posted October 31, 2010 Yes i 2nd wat donho said...keep ur ears and eyes opened! I dunno wats up with these sorta guys. I was perfectly fine with my ex n HIS ex going out once in a while for a catchup talk...but he lied to me too. It's hard to say whether he would have met her. Who knows? Maybe if she said yes, he would have told u that they were going out for a drink. Good luck.
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