rough_diamonds Posted October 30, 2010 Posted October 30, 2010 That I was sick of seeing him for like four days straight usually on the same days then going four days without seeing him. And I told him it's stupid how we don't see each other on fri or sat night. I said I would rather see him every second or third day. He said stuff about how "we still get to see each other" and that "ive been doing the weekend buddy thing since high school". Did I make fair demands? He NEVER asks me to hang out with his mates on the weekends not even for one day. Obviously im not expecting to see him every day but i would prefer a mon thurs sat rather than sun-wed thing.
Leandro Posted October 30, 2010 Posted October 30, 2010 so you see him Sunday through Wednesday? When I was with my ex we only saw each other on Fridays or Saturdays. I wish that me and her could spend more time together but that never happen because of parent issues. I'm guessing that you are getting bored of this routine, right?
Author rough_diamonds Posted October 30, 2010 Author Posted October 30, 2010 10 months. And yes - bored of the routine.
Els Posted October 30, 2010 Posted October 30, 2010 The devil side of me is tempted to tell you, "Tell him you're only free on the weekends next week and see what he does". But I suppose that would be playing games. :/ I honestly think it's quite immature for a guy to spend his entire weekend, all the time, with his buddies, despite having a girlfriend. But that really depends on the dynamics of your relationship, age, etc. For example, if you were 17, I guess it'd be normal.
Leandro Posted October 30, 2010 Posted October 30, 2010 Yea I would rather spend the weekends with my gf rather than my buddies.
Titania22 Posted October 30, 2010 Posted October 30, 2010 I thin you're being fair and reasonable. It's hard to always see someone or never see them. It's like it's either pouring with rain or it's a drought. I'm with Elswyth, start saying you're busy sometimes, so he doesn't get to see you consectutive days. At least that will space things out for you, and if he misses you, you might get the odd friday or saturday thrown in.
phineas Posted October 30, 2010 Posted October 30, 2010 err. every few months you post here about the same thing. your boyfriend hangs out with his female friend on weekends instead of you. umm either your a troll or someone with zero self respect because this has been going on for almost a yr.
Els Posted October 30, 2010 Posted October 30, 2010 Geez, I just saw this: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t238163/ . Evidently her conclusion never came through.
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