Red_S Posted October 29, 2010 Posted October 29, 2010 Hey guys i'm in a predicament and I need some advice.. so heres how the story goes. I met a girl last year october, I thought she was cute, nothing more, never wouldve thought of having ANYTHING relationship-wise with her. Time goes on, I see her once in awhile with mutual friends, she starts to notice me, tells a mutual friend that she's interested, I get the message and I consider it. We all went to a movie together and its like magic, one moment we were nothing then throughout the next 2 weeks we bonded and fell in love and it was real (atleast for me) summer goes by, we have tons of good physical times, and tons of good simple bonding, I get to know her more than anyone, and vice versa. I thought things were great until I felt my gut feeling kick in and then after all of a sudden not talking to me through out september long weekend, she tells me she doesnt love me anymore and wants to see what else there is in life for her. Well Ive been in a breakup before a bad bitter one, so handled this one much better, all I said was "I understand" (I know there is no point in begging and pleading because if they want you they will make it known) So at first I say we cant be friends anymore, but then I change my mind and we keep it casual (talking) I was invited over to her house with 2 of her friends 2 weeks after the breakup, but i was an emotional trainwreck and I told her I had to leave, she understood, two weeks after that she invited me over for a movie and afterwards she cuddled up against me and said she missed me, couple more weeks go by and im starting to act indifferent (slightly) to her, as in im starting to care less, and she just texts me late at night telling me she misses me but she doesnt wanna string me in because she still doesnt know what she wants.... Yesterday we went out for lunch, after I dropped her off I confronted her about a rumor which was she was seeing another guy, she admitted it but told me its not serious at all (I give her credit on her honesty). later that night I told her to tell me that we'll never be together again, (I wanna hear it from her because im too optimistic for my own good sometimes) she tells me she cant tell me that because she doesnt know yet. theres a lot of other details involved but I think this is the classic string along for emotional comfort/backup just incase things dont work for her the way she wants them too... ALL i want is to go out there, get over her, improve myself and become HAPPY BY MYSELF because I know that's the key, but since i broke my hand I cant do ANYTHING and it sucks, I cant even go running, its frusterating.. anyways thats my story. thanks for listening
carhill Posted October 29, 2010 Posted October 29, 2010 Time to cuddle with some other young ladies, IMO. Sounds like a typical young romance to me. Quick, intense and then on to the next thing. If you're under 25, and apparently you are, expect more of the same for awhile. I think your first post on LS was a similar story about a year ago. Since you're successfully dating young ladies and having STR's, sounds like you're doing fine. Invest less, have more fun.
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