Capital P Posted October 29, 2010 Posted October 29, 2010 After breaking up with me my ex rang after 2 months to basically tell me she had sex with someone. She then went on about how im the only guy who can please her, and can we meet up for sex etc. I bit and then she disappeared. So i got left with all the emotional ego bruising and she took it off the table, so its me that is left thinking about it. I dont have her on my fb and i have blocked her, but we do have mutual friends. Here is what their facebook is going to show Last Night: I was out with someone on her FB completely drunk all over some girls, but in a friendly way. There was a big table of us drinking champagne. tonight: Im taking a hot blonde girl to a club run by a girl we both know. nothing to do with my ex, all my friends are going. Im hoping to god shes not there because i dont want it. But there will undoubtedly be a picture of me with people Saturday. Im going out with an ex, who she hates. And im hopefully going to sleep with her. Not because of her but shes hot n we get on well. So my question is. Is that stuff going to make her more attracted to me, or less? Logically you would think less. But knowing im out there enjoying myself with women, is always going to cause attraction. As long as i dont look sleezey. I cant really help my plans for the weekend but im not doing it on purpose. There is a chance she will think i am though, and thats probably a turn off
Nkognito Posted October 29, 2010 Posted October 29, 2010 My friend, your plans surpass mine and I envy you for them. As for her, screw it. She should not be on your mind, you should be having fun and the more fun you have the better. I would not worry about whether or not having hot girls on your arm will make her come back to you or despise you in anyway. She might be hurt, jealous, frustrated but regardless she should not be renting space in your head. Enjoy the weekend, I wish I was partying with you my friend! Be safe!
Don Ho Posted October 29, 2010 Posted October 29, 2010 That's the kind of stuff I would do, but then I'm a little vindictive. I think it's a good plan, just don't over do it on the FB postings and make it too obvious. If she's a jealous or insecure type it could get her interested. If she responds with anger, that just shows she still has feelings for you. Have fun with it and keep us posted!
Author Capital P Posted October 29, 2010 Author Posted October 29, 2010 Thanks for the advice guys. My main priority here is to get more women and get out there. Dont care if that pisses her off. I just dont want her thinking im doing it intentionally cos im not Either way, i plan on gettin me sum this weeked lol
EricaH329 Posted October 29, 2010 Posted October 29, 2010 Dont care if that pisses her off. I just dont want her thinking im doing it intentionally cos im not Whether you care if it pisses her off or not, you obviously care on some level. And while I don't advocate rebounding, if that's something you are going to do regardless then I say do it for you and not for her. What I mean by that, is go out and have fun according to you. Not according to what someone else might 'think'.
SunsetRed Posted October 30, 2010 Posted October 30, 2010 What you are doing will make her want you more. It's human nature to want what you can't have. Just don't be too obvious about it or she'll see through it. One pic with you having fun in a crowd of people that includes women will be enough. She'll assume from that one pic that you had sex w someone else. You'll probably get a weepy phone call from her within 3 days of her seeing that pic. Good for you for moving on and not sitting around crying in your beer over her.
Author Capital P Posted October 31, 2010 Author Posted October 31, 2010 Jeez, u know i nearly wasnt going out tonight. I was hosting a friends halloween club night. 500 people , mostly female trying to win a fancy dress competition. I ended up having sex with 3 women tonight, it was ridiculous. 1 backstage and 2 in the hotel, at the same time. Yes, u can question my morales but that was the closest i have ever experienced to being a rockstar, and i sure as hell wasnt thinking about any exes. And i have possibly the greatest photos of all time! Jeez, u just never know whats around the corner! If someone had offered me tonight over my ex i would have told them to banish her to the other ends of the earth never to bother me again. Get out there guys, there are plenty more fish in the sea. I think im still in shock. I think im going to start a band!!!
bl22 Posted October 31, 2010 Posted October 31, 2010 I'm in a simarlar situation here myself. Been talking to an old friend of mine and realised damn shes very hot. Shes been really great to me about my situation and wants us to meet up again sometime soon which I said yes too. She also said she'd happily write on my fb to get at my ex...something along the lines of 'Had fun last night see you again soon xx' which would make my ex enraged if she saw that, problem is...I've made my fb completely private and if i unprivate it now, it would look a little too obvious. I told her nah its fine, I don't want to be immature towards her...but It'd definately work, I'm stil tempted... What you guys think?
Author Capital P Posted October 31, 2010 Author Posted October 31, 2010 In the back of my head last night i was going out to annoy my ex, get a ic with another ex. But going out and having fun just made me not care about her anyway. anything u do from this point to get your ex back, make her jealous is in danger of making her think u are doing it on purpose, and its a dangerous game anyway. To me, if i go out and piss my ex off its because shes a ****ing bitch n she deserves it, its not to make her interested in me again. Revenge, fine i say but dont do it just to get her back she will see thru it
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