Ex & I having difficulties getting back together, would really like male's opinion...

[scubaskunk]

Hey guys,

 

Okay, i've put up alot of threads talking about me and my ex and I reaaaaallyyyyyyy don't feel like boring you and myself with explaining our whole relationship over again. But ill make it quick....

 

We were together for almost two years, i moved half way across the world, I thought we were doing okay, but he couldn't handle the distance( i've been gone for a year and a month) so he broke it off with me right after I left from visiting him in Arizona. I was heart-broken, seriously and i didn't know what to do with myself. While we were broken up, i was hearing from my friends back in their town that he was dating one of my really good friends. My ex-friend now tried to hid it from me.. So anyways, 2 months after he broke it off with me, he calls me and tells me how much he misses me and how he wants to break up with his current gf but doesn't want to hurt her feelings, and how he can't wait for me to go back their for college and how he can't wait to see me and that he's sorry, blah blah blah. I was sooooooooo happy at the time, and was like yes! we are going to get back together......................well that was on Oct. 31, 2003

 

Since then I have talked to him about 3 times a month and it just seems he has no respect for my anymore. The first time he called me after the breakup he was like, yeah, i've forgotten about all the problems in the past and yadda yadda yadda, i've changed, and i was like great, becuase i know for a fac tthat i have changed and i have really forgotten about alot of the bad things we went through. Well for the past 2 months, he has been treating me like **** on the phone. He cusses as me, just joking, but its still rude, tells me that he's not planning anything for our future because it could all change, tells me that he might go to college at CSU when I know for a fact he isn't but i guess he just wants to get me worried, AND it sounds like him and his gf that he never did break up with are doing great, but forgets that fact that she tells him things so he will get mad at me, and he never gets mad at her. she rips up our pictures and he doesn't do anything about it, but should he, we aren't together??

 

I don't know what to do anymore. I'm happier without him but only for a limited time. Then i want to be with him again. Why has he all of a sudden just started to be all mean to me outta nowhere, he wasn't like this when he called me that one time...(that was the only time he called me since the breakup) DId he just try to make things good between us so when i go back there he know's he can always have me??? Like a security thing, i swear i love him with all my heart, but im i really just wasting my time. am i just jealous becuase he is in a happy relationship right now and im not?!?! Oh, and my ex-friend told people that my ex told her that he doesn't love me anymore and never did care about me. but he tells me opposite, do you think he really did say that or she just told my CLOSE friend that because she knew it would get back to me.....PLEASE tell me what to do...

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