is it time to move on....?

[mysticmeg1]

just wondering, i'v being seen my boyfriend for almost 3 years now, however there is an age gap which never occured to me to mind but at the start of our relationship we preferred to keep it quiet until we were sure about everything he got a bit of hassle from people about my age but it soon passed i always told him those ''who mind dont matter and those that matter don't mind which is true really my friends and faimly get on great with him..althought its not the same for him his family are old fashioned especially his mum they dont like me at all this upsets me he never seems to back my corner ..i haven't mentioned he has a child from a previous relationship well not exactly a relationship more of a quick fling..neither of them get on with eachother but try for the sake of their child but the ex makes life so difficult for him and since we got together its got worse she makes life hell for him and i feel theres nothing i can do my bf gets really upset about this and i have no way of comforting him..i always tell him i do not want to interfere as its not my business nor am i a parent..and im in no position to give advice..im still young and feel alot of pressure at times..hes nearly 30 now and is settling down sometimes i feel we are so different and that he cant talk to me about anything i know he has issues from his past that i dont want to mention he is also very insecure..i keep coming back to the same question...am i trying to hard to fit into his life??? i do love him dearly

[that girl]

He's nearly 30, but how old are you?

 

How old is his child?

 

And write in real paragraphs with capitalization, this post was way too hard to read.

[naleylove23]

it sounds like you have felt this way for quite some time. i think its time to move on and find someone more near your age who you can have common interests with it just sounds like your settling and your not very happy about it. the situation you are in NOW will keep being this same way forever with this man so the better question is are you ready to move on? until then you will stay with him unhappy!