hopeless4u Posted October 28, 2010 Posted October 28, 2010 I actually realised something tonight. Ususally when I come back to catch up with my thread (most who know me know I can't be here everyday),I usually get wound up with the responses.....this time I haven't:) I can see what a fool I was, don't get me wrong my heart still hurts so bad and I still won't be able to come here to much as it just makes me think of what could of been and that still hurts like hell but I realise I AM moving on:) Thank you LS
BB07 Posted October 28, 2010 Posted October 28, 2010 I actually realised something tonight. Ususally when I come back to catch up with my thread (most who know me know I can't be here everyday),I usually get wound up with the responses.....this time I haven't:) I can see what a fool I was, don't get me wrong my heart still hurts so bad and I still won't be able to come here to much as it just makes me think of what could of been and that still hurts like hell but I realise I AM moving on:) Thank you LS Hi H4U.........I think you are gonna make it girl and I also think you will get to the point of not mourning the loss of "what could have been" and you'll look at it differently. Instead of "what could have been", your head and your eyes will see it differently and you will instead be glad that "it wasn't". Hugs.....
Author hopeless4u Posted October 28, 2010 Author Posted October 28, 2010 Hi H4U.........I think you are gonna make it girl and I also think you will get to the point of not mourning the loss of "what could have been" and you'll look at it differently. Instead of "what could have been", your head and your eyes will see it differently and you will instead be glad that "it wasn't". Hugs..... Hey BB, yeah I do feel I will get there one day. I have been off work this week and TBH I thought I'd spend most of it at the bottom of a bottle:o I haven't:p I've been the gym twice, and again this Saturday:), i've been walking in the woods and fields with my best friends dog every day and I have done the jobs around my house without crying. I'm good right now, not fixed but better:) Thanks for the hugs BB xx
ladydesigner Posted October 28, 2010 Posted October 28, 2010 Hi H4U.........I think you are gonna make it girl and I also think you will get to the point of not mourning the loss of "what could have been" and you'll look at it differently. Instead of "what could have been", your head and your eyes will see it differently and you will instead be glad that "it wasn't". Hugs..... Isn't that the truth!!!!! Cheers to moving on:bunny::bunny: I like it!!!
Author hopeless4u Posted October 28, 2010 Author Posted October 28, 2010 Isn't that the truth!!!!! Cheers to moving on:bunny::bunny: I like it!!! As we say in the UK (well at least me and my friends do) CHING, CHING, here is to the future:):) xx
spice4life Posted October 29, 2010 Posted October 29, 2010 I actually realised something tonight. Ususally when I come back to catch up with my thread (most who know me know I can't be here everyday),I usually get wound up with the responses.....this time I haven't:) I can see what a fool I was, don't get me wrong my heart still hurts so bad and I still won't be able to come here to much as it just makes me think of what could of been and that still hurts like hell but I realise I AM moving on:) Thank you LS Good for you hopeless4u! It sound like you are on your way to final closure. It takes time, but that is okay, it is something that you need to give yourself in order for you to move on. Good luck! I wish you peace real soon.
jj33 Posted October 29, 2010 Posted October 29, 2010 You sound like you are moving on which is great. It simply takes time to process what happened and to accept that things are not as we thought they were. You are doing great. And dont beat yourself up with the I was a fool. We all do the best we can each day with the information that is in front of us. In retrospect it was foolish. At the time, it was a wonderful exhilarating relationshp unlike any other. Big hugs
joey66 Posted October 29, 2010 Posted October 29, 2010 Good for you, moving on. I'm thinking about you h4u. I hope you are doing well.
MorningCoffee Posted October 29, 2010 Posted October 29, 2010 For the rest of us that have had difficulty moving on ourselves, you are inspiring. Good going!
fooled once Posted October 30, 2010 Posted October 30, 2010 You are doing great! ONE day at a time, H4U. ONE DAY at a time
Just a stone's throw Posted October 31, 2010 Posted October 31, 2010 H4U, Hey Girl! I'm happy for your frame of mind and where you're at. I'm there too. Mine is by distance and "other" circumstances but am ready and in a good place to stop ruminating on the "what could have been's" and be thankful for the what "is". Feeling peaceful about things is such a blessing. I know we will both have times where it will feel less positive but do this with me: Sit down, outside somewhere where you really feel in tune with nature and just "be" for awhile. Remember that feeling. Give that moment a name. "my day, my moment" or something and when you start to have a time, memory or feeling that starts to draw you back in, pull that memory out from "your day, your moment" and put yourself in that place. Feel it and bring yourself back. Hugs!!! H4U!!! JAST
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