naleylove23 Posted October 28, 2010 Posted October 28, 2010 Me and my boyfriend had dated 8 months and then month ago he flat out ignored my texts and finally said he wanted to meet up. So I go to his house and he broke up with me with no reason at all. I'm 19 he's almost 21 and I'm his first gf...first everything pretty much. So ofcourse I was devastated and 2 weeks go by with no communication barely and he texts me making small talk then finally breaks down saying he misses me. So I go to his house demanding why he would break up with me and he says I'm sorry I was scared and idk I was being dumb he also goes on saying ur once in a life time and the most amazing girl. So we date for only a week when he dumps me again. I guess he got super drunk one night band just kissed some girl and he said I deserved better and that he missed having someone next to hime and that'swhy he came back to me and that he was confused and he loved me as a friend not a gf then he says I'm not the one for you and keeps telling me I deserve better ugh and while saying all of this he's crying. So since we have mutual. Friends we are both at a party the next weekend and he got a little drunk and said how he missed me and that he scared and confused bblah blah and he tried to get me to kiss him snd stay the night and I didn't! He was saying how he wanted to prove to me that we could work. So a couple days later I wrote him a letter saying I need a bf who will love and cherish me and so on and I told him if he doesn't change some of his ways.to never come back to me but if he did changte his ways we could start all over and try this relationship again and we never even fought. So a couple days after giving him thisletter one of my mutualy friends with him tells me stay as far away as possible from him because all he wants is to get in my pants:( I texted him saying lose my number and rip that letter up and never talk to me again he said I'm sorry I just need time to think still I'm sorry and I texted him back sayuing well I heard u only want me for sex and ofxourse he was super pissed anyways halloweens this weekend and I'm pretty sure we will be at the same party its been two weeks still haven't heard from him idk what to do ignore him?? Help
Hhhh Posted October 28, 2010 Posted October 28, 2010 Ignore this douche bag he is obviously unstable and he can't carry a relationship you need to move on because it will only get worse over time if you stay inthe relationship heartbreak is much worse three, four, five years into the relationship NC and move on
stellaluna Posted October 28, 2010 Posted October 28, 2010 I shake my head when i hear a person say stuff like this. Your young you should start early learning to respect yourself now. The dude ignored you for a month! That should have been the end of the story but you keep going back and you still believe in giving him chances, WHY????? This dude doesn't give a crap about you he only cares about himself. Hes never going to change hes never going to treat you better. Hes also never going to respect you because he knows he can walk all over you its almost like a game for him. Stand up for yourself!
Author naleylove23 Posted October 29, 2010 Author Posted October 29, 2010 i know both of you are totally right hes treating me like ****! haha and i feel bad for women who arent strong enough to leave a man who treats her bad or beats her etc. i am young and im going to that party tomorrow night and im ignoring his sorry ass because he doesnt deserve me. thank you
strength-abounds Posted October 29, 2010 Posted October 29, 2010 You're right. He doesn't deserve you. Party hard and have fun.
D-Lish Posted October 29, 2010 Posted October 29, 2010 Methinks you're going to party hard and make out with him again... I hope you don't, but I think you will.
coltsfan1 Posted October 29, 2010 Posted October 29, 2010 lol just put her out D-lish!! Stay strong girl and if you need to leave the party or don't go at all.. I am 30 and had to make choices about who I spend time with and who I don't. If I go around my ex it will only hurt me since I have let her go but haven't moved on. There is a difference between knowing that you and your ex won't work and being ready to try with someone new. just do your best and leave the party if you have too.
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