Author Jamone Posted November 28, 2010 Author Posted November 28, 2010 TigerCub:Wow! I'm sorry things turned out that way for you. I have never been so scared and confused as i am now. I love my little girl more than life itself and the thought of not seeing her daily would just rip my heart out. I now feel nothing for my W. I don't even want to talk to her. I think everyday now that i should leave but financially that's not possible and emotionally i don't know if i'm strong enough to do it. The last thing i want to do is mess up my daughter's life. You've definitely given me something to seriously consider. I think that this is probably the end and i should go but i feel trapped. In a way, i don't really trust her with my little girl and i want to be around to see what's happening. I know i should do the right thing for me and my little girl and leave but god the thought is killing me. Forgive me if i am going around in circles and am behaving like a wimp but i'm really confused and scared. Time to man up i guess. pureinheart:If she was working long hrs and stressed with work then i could be more understanding. But did you put everything and everyone before your H? I wasn't into porn prior to this. Found it boring. I've stopped looking at it now because i find it boring and besides the obvious quick fix (masturbation), it does nothing for me. To be honest, i don't even think about sex anymore. I just get on with the boring day to day routine. At least you've identified the cause of your lack of libido, my W seems to get her kicks from reading. If she does make a move for it i will turn her down because i don't feel anything anymore and it would be hypocritical for me to do it...if i could physically get things going if you know what i mean. Are you still with your H? and if you are how do you two get on?
mem11363 Posted November 29, 2010 Posted November 29, 2010 Who is the primary breadwinner? How old is your daughter? TigerCub:Wow! I'm sorry things turned out that way for you. I have never been so scared and confused as i am now. I love my little girl more than life itself and the thought of not seeing her daily would just rip my heart out. I now feel nothing for my W. I don't even want to talk to her. I think everyday now that i should leave but financially that's not possible and emotionally i don't know if i'm strong enough to do it. The last thing i want to do is mess up my daughter's life. You've definitely given me something to seriously consider. I think that this is probably the end and i should go but i feel trapped. In a way, i don't really trust her with my little girl and i want to be around to see what's happening. I know i should do the right thing for me and my little girl and leave but god the thought is killing me. Forgive me if i am going around in circles and am behaving like a wimp but i'm really confused and scared. Time to man up i guess. pureinheart:If she was working long hrs and stressed with work then i could be more understanding. But did you put everything and everyone before your H? I wasn't into porn prior to this. Found it boring. I've stopped looking at it now because i find it boring and besides the obvious quick fix (masturbation), it does nothing for me. To be honest, i don't even think about sex anymore. I just get on with the boring day to day routine. At least you've identified the cause of your lack of libido, my W seems to get her kicks from reading. If she does make a move for it i will turn her down because i don't feel anything anymore and it would be hypocritical for me to do it...if i could physically get things going if you know what i mean. Are you still with your H? and if you are how do you two get on?
Author Jamone Posted December 2, 2010 Author Posted December 2, 2010 Daughter's 3 and we earn roughly the same.
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