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Is there something going on, or i am imagining??


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Him and me work in different team, and he is a several years senior. He is a really friendly person and everyone has really high opinion of him at work.

 

He has been really friendly to me as well, asking me to join him for lunch and coffee with his team. He would always pay for our coffee or meals.

 

Last week he took us out to play golf, and today he took us out to play tennis. Where he always pays for me. I say 'us' because he always invites a few people, though I am the only girl, but it is still a group event.

 

I heard from his junior team member, that he told him he had a girlfriend. But himself never mentioned it to me. Even during out length chats over coffee and dessert, where we enjoy it alone, he never mentioned much about her. He said "when i am single..." and "and my last girlfriend", but never clarified. If I haven't known he had a girlfriend a few weeks back, i would have sworn there might be something between us. But the thing is I don't know whether he has one right now. And i am too scared to find out, so i will never know until he tells me directly.

 

I am finishing my term at my current work place and is moving to another place next week, but he will stay back. I guess I will quickly find out the answer to my own question (if he still wants to hang out or not), but I am eager to see what others think of my situation.

 

If you are him, would u do the above because u like the girl, or simply because u r nice?

Edited by jennatu
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I think if you have to question his intentions then you already have your answer.

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