Eclypse Posted October 28, 2010 Posted October 28, 2010 Lately I have barely seen my girlfriend at all. When she was meant to come over she would have headaches, or period cramps, or felt sick and it was raining. I would try to go to her place in that case but I can't always get a car on those days (which is why we planned for her to come to me). It just kind of bothers me a little bit. She is very small and fragile I suppose but I always go to her place whenever I can. No force on this planet can stop me. Doesn't matter how unwell I feel, or how injured I am she is my top priority and I go to see her. And I stay quite late at her place to make the most of our time. She however always leaves my house squarely at 10pm and not a moment later so she can get to bed on time (we are about 40 mins drive). When we discuss when to meet up next she often wants it to be a week apart so she can study. But yet those nights we don't meet up we just talk online and I feel a bit stupid because we could easily be together in person.. and it annoys me. I guess it does kind of bother me that I would make sacrifices for her and make her my no.1 priority but it seems like she doesn't want to do the same for me always. She's only driven over once in the last month or so
Untouchable_Fire Posted October 28, 2010 Posted October 28, 2010 I guess it does kind of bother me that I would make sacrifices for her and make her my no.1 priority but it seems like she doesn't want to do the same for me always. She's only driven over once in the last month or so Does she know you two are dating? It sounds like she isn't that into you.
Author Eclypse Posted October 28, 2010 Author Posted October 28, 2010 She knows. She tells me she loves me everyday and talks about our dream house etc. But lately it just seems like she doesn't want to see me anymore she doesn't seem to want sex as much anymore either. Blah. We've been dating 6 months.
BackUpOrGetStung Posted October 28, 2010 Posted October 28, 2010 Break it off with her. She's checking out of the relationship emotionally right now, so it's not so hard for her to deal with when she drops the ax on you. Cut her off at the past, and break up with her citing her lack of interest, and tell her to give you a call if she decides she's interested in continuing the relationship. You sound like sap, so I know it won't happen, but good luck in your dying relationship.
that girl Posted October 29, 2010 Posted October 29, 2010 How old are you two? Are you sleeping together? Is she in the midst of some intense schoolwork.? I don't think you should always be the one travelling to see her, but if she feels like crap I can see why she wouldn't want to make the effort. The leaving at 10PM thing is what really strikes me as odd.
Author Eclypse Posted October 29, 2010 Author Posted October 29, 2010 We're 20 and 21. The reason she leave at 10 is also because her mum doesn't like her driving home late. She's 21. We've had a bit of schoolwork lately, yet she's always online talking to me. And yes we are having sex we were both virgins before. When we're together things are great but they aren't so good when we aren't She tells me it's nothing, that she loves me more than anyone, but I can't help but feel a little hurt sometimes. Maybe it's just me though. She lights up my life so nothing would stop me from going to her.
redmelon Posted October 29, 2010 Posted October 29, 2010 maybe you should talk to her about your concerns in more detail and see if she will compromise and come your way a little once she knows you are upset.
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