tkgirl Posted October 28, 2010 Posted October 28, 2010 I have a question for the guys... here goes: have you ever started crying while making love? I know some of us women have (including myself) maybe it's because we get overwhelmed with emotion? anyways, a close friend of mine told me that last night while her and her BF were in the middle of doing it he started to cry! she thought it was touching.. I think it's a little weird... so, if any of you dare to 'fess up to it here I'd be curious as to how many of you... ummm... way too sensitive for me types are out there!
somedude81 Posted October 28, 2010 Posted October 28, 2010 anyways, a close friend of mine told me that last night while her and her BF were in the middle of doing it he started to cry! she thought it was touching.. I think it's a little weird... I think he started crying because his you know what, got bent in the wrong way.
Sabali Posted October 28, 2010 Posted October 28, 2010 If any guy admits to this I will lose respect for you forever.
Author tkgirl Posted October 28, 2010 Author Posted October 28, 2010 I think he started crying because his you know what, got bent in the wrong way. If any guy admits to this I will lose respect for you forever. you'll lose respect for me or for the guy? yeah.. I doubt any guy on here will admit to it either. so it is weird then? it's not just me... cuz I've never had it happen to me and if I did I'd probably slap him across the face and say "snap out of it! stop being such a little girl!"
tigressA Posted October 28, 2010 Posted October 28, 2010 Personally I'd be rather touched. I find that stuff romantic.
Author tkgirl Posted October 28, 2010 Author Posted October 28, 2010 Personally I'd be rather touched. I find that stuff romantic. really? that's what my friend said too. I mean, if a guy got all emo on me while were talking say... afterwards... how much I meant to him etc. then I'd definitely be touched... I'm not that cold! but during? ugh... I think it would turn me off.
Fouts Posted October 28, 2010 Posted October 28, 2010 I can't imagine a guy crying during sex, that's pretty odd.
loverofloveandstuff Posted October 28, 2010 Posted October 28, 2010 WOW. That is so unattractive. If any guy started to cry while we were having sex I would dump his ass. That is just not sexy. With that said, fess up boys.
strength-abounds Posted October 28, 2010 Posted October 28, 2010 Ummm................H*LL NO!!!! Sorry but any dude that turns on the water works before, during, or after sex needs to turn in his mancard at the front door.
Feelin Frisky Posted October 28, 2010 Posted October 28, 2010 Wouldn't occur to me in a million years. And, I'm one to choke up when things do move me--just can't see it happening when making love. Whimpering and making love don't mix: "oh baby, I'm gonna cum...but hold on for a minute while I bawl out loud first" See? Doesn't fit.
Sivok Posted October 28, 2010 Posted October 28, 2010 Haven't felt it myself, but I suppose I can somewhat empathize with it. If they were so romantically inclined, the mood was absolutely perfect, and so in love with one another that they're in disbelief... I guess I can see it happening? I mean, if this wasn't the case, she probably wouldn't be touched by it. I imagine it moreso as an unconscious trickle than straight up bawling tears. IF that's the case, it's like the guy reached nirvana. Sounds like an experience I'd envy, actually
TaurusTerp Posted October 28, 2010 Posted October 28, 2010 I've heard of it happening, although not to me personally...nor would I admit it to anyone. Jeez, how embarrassing.
Andy_K Posted October 28, 2010 Posted October 28, 2010 All kinds of weird. It is only excusable if you have a pet rottweiler that leapt up and bit him in the nuts.
Citizen Erased Posted October 28, 2010 Posted October 28, 2010 How incredibly unattractive. That includes if they're female or male. It's sex, there's nothing to cry about.
Surrealist Posted October 28, 2010 Posted October 28, 2010 I cant say I have. Who knows I might next time given such a long abstinence but it'd barely be noticeable if it happened, no whimpering or crap like that. Like Musemaj I'm a little more on the emotional side but not a blubbering mess. I seldom if ever cry at all but when my Persian cat of 11.5 years had to be euthanased back in July I cried I admit, and I didn't give a flying **** what anyone would of thought about it, but then I took a few days off work and didn't allow it to happen in public areas though sometime was close.
Tim The Enchanter Posted October 28, 2010 Posted October 28, 2010 I'm just as likely to cry whilst taking a dump, which is to say never.
alexlakeman Posted October 28, 2010 Posted October 28, 2010 No. At that moment I'm hony not sentimental! Sounds , ummm, feminine, then again no woman has ever cried in bed.
Untouchable_Fire Posted October 28, 2010 Posted October 28, 2010 I have a question for the guys... here goes: have you ever started crying while making love? I know some of us women have (including myself) maybe it's because we get overwhelmed with emotion? anyways, a close friend of mine told me that last night while her and her BF were in the middle of doing it he started to cry! she thought it was touching.. I think it's a little weird... so, if any of you dare to 'fess up to it here I'd be curious as to how many of you... ummm... way too sensitive for me types are out there! I don't know of anyone. What was that guy thinking?
Author tkgirl Posted October 28, 2010 Author Posted October 28, 2010 wow! some interesting and very funny responses! I feel kind of bad now that I posted this about my friend's BF but, eh... she's not a LSer so she won't know yeah, the whole thing struck me as very odd and makes me wonder even more about this guy... and I was already having my doubts from other stuff she told me about him. But she's happy so I guess that's what matters!
NickelbackFan Posted October 28, 2010 Posted October 28, 2010 Well Ill break the ice. I am a grown man, 32 and yes I have cried during sex one time. Before I get the verbal back lash and vitriol aimed at me, let explain to you the cirucmstances. About eight years ago, I was engaged and with a girl for four years, things didn't work out and I was in a deep depression afterwords. I didn't want to eat, sleep, just lost alot of interest in things I usually had interest in, sex being one of them. Well, in one of my spouts of depression one of my close female friends who I have slept with before prior to my relationship slept over one night to keep me company because I didn't want to be alone. We slept in the same bed and sex was the last thing on my mind. I guess she wanted to cheer me up and try to arouse me, it worked but I couldn't take my mind off my ex girlfriend. I didn't have any performance problems, maintained an erection had sex for a good 45 mins but towards the end I became very emotional because my mind wasn't in the right place and began to cry. She understood and we just slept next to eachother the whole night. Now I am awaiting the flaming.
Author tkgirl Posted October 28, 2010 Author Posted October 28, 2010 Well Ill break the ice. I am a grown man, 32 and yes I have cried during sex one time. Before I get the verbal back lash and vitriol aimed at me, let explain to you the cirucmstances. About eight years ago, I was engaged and with a girl for four years, things didn't work out and I was in a deep depression afterwords. I didn't want to eat, sleep, just lost alot of interest in things I usually had interest in, sex being one of them. Well, in one of my spouts of depression one of my close female friends who I have slept with before prior to my relationship slept over one night to keep me company because I didn't want to be alone. We slept in the same bed and sex was the last thing on my mind. I guess she wanted to cheer me up and try to arouse me, it worked but I couldn't take my mind off my ex girlfriend. I didn't have any performance problems, maintained an erection had sex for a good 45 mins but towards the end I became very emotional because my mind wasn't in the right place and began to cry. She understood and we just slept next to eachother the whole night. Now I am awaiting the flaming. I hope no one here gives you crap about that... I think in that situation it totally makes sense... and I commend you for having the guts to share your story here!
carhill Posted October 28, 2010 Posted October 28, 2010 I have a question for the guys... here goes: have you ever started crying while making love? Sure. It's an emotional response. IMO, healthy people can and do cry from joy, sadness, laughter, and a myriad of mixed emotions. It's a physical expression of their emotional state. If one can't freely and safely express their emotions with the person they're most intimate with, most connected to, what does that say about them? Looking back, that's probably what I missed most in my marriage and the lack of that intimacy being shared and mutual was what killed my love. Should I run into such a woman again, or one who doesn't value the depth of my emotional expressions, the door will definitely not hit me in the ass on the way out. She can stay right where she is
Author tkgirl Posted October 28, 2010 Author Posted October 28, 2010 Sure. It's an emotional response. IMO, healthy people can and do cry from joy, sadness, laughter, and a myriad of mixed emotions. It's a physical expression of their emotional state. If one can't freely and safely express their emotions with the person they're most intimate with, most connected to, what does that say about them? Looking back, that's probably what I missed most in my marriage and the lack of that intimacy being shared and mutual was what killed my love. Should I run into such a woman again, or one who doesn't value the depth of my emotional expressions, the door will definitely not hit me in the ass on the way out. She can stay right where she is true... but I still say there's a time and a place for it. I guess in the case of my friend and this guy... it just doesn't add up. Two days before this crying thing happened he had actually dumped her out of no where.. and was being a total ass according to her. Actually, it wasn't really out of no where... they started to argue over money... apparently he owes her some money and she was asking if he could pay some of it back as she needed it. She told me she basically pays for everything when they go out... oh, and she's 15 years older so I'm thinking he's just using her as some sort of sugar mama... so the whole reuniting/crying thing just doesn't sit well with me. I just don't want to see her get played and I think that's exactly what he's doing... and that the crying thing was his way of trying to suck her in even more. anyho...
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