RDMACC Posted October 28, 2010 Posted October 28, 2010 So there's this one pretty good looking girl who is in the majority of my lectures. Whenever she isn't with her friends in the classes, she always sits next to me, but when either myself or her friends aren't there she always keeps one seat open next to everyone she sits near. Me and this girl have rarely talked, her initiating the "did he ask for our work", and that is pretty much it. I never really bothered on having a fully fledged conversation with her. That is pretty much what it is. I'm not exactly George Clooney, and I'm not ugly either, but what does this mean exactly? For those of you who might say talk to her, what exactly would I talk about and or initiate a conversation?
Sabali Posted October 28, 2010 Posted October 28, 2010 It's not important if she is interested or not in you at this stage. It makes absolutely no difference so lets push that topic to the side for now. What is important is that you are interested in her. That's the only thing that matters for now. If you are interested in her, which is obvious that you are, go up and talk to her. Don't plan your topic of talk. It is important that you look natural. Just go up and start talking. Let $#it fly out of your mouth. I do it all of the time and it is fun. Just start talking about whatever. At the end of the talk, which won't be long, ask for her number. If she won't give you that ask for her email address. When you call, ask her out. After your first date, that is when you will be concerned about whether she is interested in you or not. You have to make her interested in a second date but save those thoughts for later. You just need to start talking for now.
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