kkgirl543 Posted October 27, 2010 Posted October 27, 2010 (edited) (I'm a lesbian)Okay so yesterday my girlfriend broke up with me I found out she apparently still liked this girl,that she cheated on me in summer with, and she lied about it to me on several occasions. She then broke up with me and didn't even at least try to make it right or anything, just broke up with me. She has this best friend she introduced me to called Daren and he was sending me a little of the conversation they were having. She then talked to me and we had a normal conversation I guess and then she asked me out. Daren told me that he told her to ask me out and I couldn't exactly say no and I did miss her so I said okay and daren told me to tell her I loved her. And I did and then we continued to be all mushy and lovey from there except well we are broken up and she did lie to me and yeah I love her and she loves me too but I don't really want to carry on a relationship like that. We have been together for almost a year. Today would have been our 11 month anniversary. I really don't know what to do. Should I give her more chances or should I just distant myself and tell her that yeah even though we said I love you's I'm done for good? Edited October 27, 2010 by kkgirl543
Don Ho Posted October 28, 2010 Posted October 28, 2010 Well your Ex is a cheater. As I always explain, cheaters are liars by definition. That means where there is one lie or deceit there are others. I understand that you still tell each other you love each other and you still care about her. But cheating is a deal breaker. She will do it again no matter what she tells you. If you were smart (as much as it hurts) you should bail out and be done. Better to cut your toe off now than have to cut off your foot later. Despite your gender and your orientation, I will still tell you what I tell the guys: don't be a pussy. Move on. You know what I'm saying. Good luck!
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