newatthis1 Posted October 27, 2010 Posted October 27, 2010 Saturday he told my three year old that he was coming over on Sunday to see him and his baby brother, Sunday comes around no call/no show. Yesterday was his day off, he came over two hours late(mind you it has only been two weeks since he left). When My three year old sw him he said "dad stop being mean to my mommy", then when he was giving the babies a bath, my three year old said"this is not your job anymore, it's grandma's", he thinks my family and I have been talking S#$% about him in front of the babies, we haven't, we don't want the kids to have a bad image of his father, that will really confuse the kids more. Ex thougth that my mom was driving around the house, when she was at work. My mom came over the house to talk to him and let him know that she wasn't saying anything about him, he went crazy!!! cussing my mom out and just saying off the wall stuff about custody and child support!!! why is he acting all aggressive like that? why does he think that my family are out to get him? I am just trying to get over the whole thing and be happy and normal with my kids!!! he only brings drama and negativity!!! my parents have been nothing but nice to him and he insulted my mother yesterday, that is one more thing to add to the list of things he has done to me!!
iheartboobs Posted October 27, 2010 Posted October 27, 2010 He's pissed. No one likes being called out when they know they're wrong, especially by their little child, and he's looking for any excuse or anybody to blame so he doesn't have to deal with the fact that even a 3 year old knows it's wrong to treat someone like he treats you. My ex got mad at me last week because our 4 year old daughter told someone that we broke up "because mommy is kind of a B to my daddy". The ex was convinced that I told her to say that when, really, I didn't... our daughter could just tell that her mommy is a bitch to her daddy.
LuckyClover Posted October 28, 2010 Posted October 28, 2010 [My ex got mad at me last week because our 4 year old daughter told someone that we broke up "because mommy is kind of a B to my daddy". The ex was convinced that I told her to say that when, really, I didn't... our daughter could just tell that her mommy is a bitch to her daddy.] lol, that's some funny $hit. My daughter told me she loves me more than she loves mom yesturday. Today in front of her mom, she acts relieved that it's daddy's day and not mommy's. hahaha. newatthis1, what happen that caused the separatation? How long has it been? Are you sure your parents are really being nice? We're they really going over there to defend themselves? Or to create an awkward situation? Sad part is, is that you probably were talking $hit in front of your son, you might just not realize it. Remember your child is like a sponge, he's absorbing every detail and creating his own outcome. Even a disccusion about his father in front of him, if not using the right tone of voice or if you're unknowly displaying expressions of stress or despair, does impact your son's feelings towards his dad. Daddy sounds hurt and is sadly taking it out on you and your family. I'm sorry Hang in there... It's got to get better. Kiss your son and smile every moment that man isn't in the room or on the phone. I'll pray he snaps out of his funk and starts being the best daddy your son deserves.
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