UniqueEbony Posted October 27, 2010 Posted October 27, 2010 Hey so the last time i posted i was stressing because a guy my friend recommended to me asked me on a date and when i accepted i didnt hear from him for over a week!! Well he got in touch finally (after my friend had adiscreet word) and we went on a date had a really good night (so i thought)!! He said some really nice things about me to my friend i.e. he would go on a second date and thanked her for hooking us up, he even sent me a nice birthday message at the weekend!! But I text him on sunday just asking how he was and again no reply it snow tuesday ......... I just want u guys take on it is do you think he likes me but just busy or do you think he doesnt and was just being polite when he said stuff to my friend????
kiss_andmakeup Posted October 27, 2010 Posted October 27, 2010 Who knows, maybe he's not interested or maybe he's just a flake, either way DON'T contact him again! You only went on one date, go on with your life, if he wants to get back in contact with you he will, and at that point you can decide whether or not you want to respond.
Author UniqueEbony Posted October 27, 2010 Author Posted October 27, 2010 No I wont contact him again, just dont like the mixed messages
stillafool Posted October 27, 2010 Posted October 27, 2010 No don't contact him again. He may have felt obligated to take you out at least once since his friend was expecting it. I hope he didn't feel pressured. If I were you I would have told the friend not to bother having a talk with him about taking you out after he didn't make contact the first time. I would look elsewhere until he makes a move.
Author UniqueEbony Posted October 27, 2010 Author Posted October 27, 2010 Thats really good advice, i guess you're right i didnt mean for him to feel pressured either!! but even if he's not interested he should just say, i'm a big girl i can take it - its just the silence i find frustrating and well rude really!
stillafool Posted October 30, 2010 Posted October 30, 2010 Thats really good advice, i guess you're right i didnt mean for him to feel pressured either!! but even if he's not interested he should just say, i'm a big girl i can take it - its just the silence i find frustrating and well rude really! No one has the guts to say that.
Str8noChaser Posted October 30, 2010 Posted October 30, 2010 He might be seeing other woman and you're not on his A team.
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