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My cousins X who is mutual friends with my X, always has to throw her slickness and mention my X and certain details about her life, like I care. I had 3 years with my X before I left due to unhappiness and try to return due to ego issues. It was unsuccessful since she ran back to her X and slept with him. Been in no contact for 2 weeks now. Workin on getting rid of my morning glitches of her contacting me. Ive moved on to other women since then. But why do you girls do what her friend is doing like I care? It doesn't concern me about her life. Like I tell her friend about my life and things going on, which I am going to stop. Because me telling her she gonna repot back to her. Which can Be a good or bad thing.

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My cousins X who is mutual friends with my X, always has to throw her slickness and mention my X and certain details about her life, like I care. I had 3 years with my X before I left due to unhappiness and try to return due to ego issues. It was unsuccessful since she ran back to her X and slept with him. Been in no contact for 2 weeks now. Workin on getting rid of my morning glitches of her contacting me. Ive moved on to other women since then. But why do you girls do what her friend is doing like I care? It doesn't concern me about her life. Like I tell her friend about my life and things going on, which I am going to stop. Because me telling her she gonna repot back to her. Which can Be a good or bad thing.

 

Ahhh...Sith, I'm sorry to hear such...

 

I suspect they are aware of how you might be internalizing news and updates which makes it somewhat of a game for them...

 

They probably mean no harm but at the same time act and behave in fraternal ways. Just a hunch.

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Dont get me wrong, it hurt me that she moved on really quickly back to her X boyfriend, but I was her first love and real relationship. She's need to experience and know what's bad and good. The only thing I got In my head is getting rid thoughts if her calling

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tell you cousin to stop talking about her. Whenever my friends bring up the subject I just got who cares, I don't want to hear it and bring on a new topic.

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tell you cousin to stop talking about her. Whenever my friends bring up the subject I just got who cares, I don't want to hear it and bring on a new topic.

 

For two years or so my Mother referred to a new girlfriend by my old girlfriend's name...oh that was an experience...

 

When someone brings up the name or info of an old "flame" never respond, never, simply look at them and smirk or smile without showing any teeth, you know those type of courtesy smiles you're probably used to from the service industry (LOL).

 

If you do that and don't sy a word they end up feeling silly about even mentioning it and usually stop in pretty short order.

 

Try it!!! ;-)

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No guys not my cousin, I said my cousins X girlfriend always brings her up to me in a slick way. No reason to, I'm just fighting off the Lil voice that tells me she gonna call one day.

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No guys not my cousin, I said my cousins X girlfriend always brings her up to me in a slick way. No reason to, I'm just fighting off the Lil voice that tells me she gonna call one day.

Keep fighting that little voice. I had that little voice too but its been 7 weeks NC, so I know she isn't going to contact at all.

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