carhill Posted October 29, 2010 Posted October 29, 2010 OP, IMO, context should be considered. What was the focus of the contact? If mention was made of your pictures being 'alluring' as a part of a diversified contact which didn't focus on your appearance, I would dismiss or minimize the reference as being significant. Your opinion? BTW, using a word such as alluring says something about the man's command of language. I only know a few Aussie men but, when throwing back a few with them and talking about women, 'alluring' is not how they describe women within their range of vision, IME. 'Hot', 'feral', 'sexy', sure.... Another factor to consider is would you judge a man negatively for not commenting on your physical appearance? Would you think that he didn't find you attractive? Why or why not?
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