raspy Posted October 27, 2010 Posted October 27, 2010 I'd been with my bf since sat night and it's now wed and he had to go home for some friends birthday dinner tonight. As I was dropping him off at the station I said "so when can we see each other next?" He gave me this really puzzled, 'wtf' kinda face and was like "i've been with you for 5 days. We'll see each other again. In a few days". It was really awkward. Did I say the wrong thing or was he being a jerk?
Andy_K Posted October 27, 2010 Posted October 27, 2010 He was either being a dick, or else just totally misreading you. It's possible when you said 'When can we see each other again?' what he heard was 'I want to see you again as soon as humanly possible. I want to know when that will be?' There was absolutely nothing wrong with what you said.
valpre Posted October 27, 2010 Posted October 27, 2010 Personally I don't think what you said was wrong, but apparently us girls need to be very careful of what we say in order not to appear "clingy", but maybe that's just in the early phases of dating.
Tim The Enchanter Posted October 27, 2010 Posted October 27, 2010 He was being a jerk. When I used to have my girlfriend stay over, I'd hate it when she had to leave, even though I knew I'd been seeing her the next day or so.
Eeyore79 Posted October 27, 2010 Posted October 27, 2010 Yup, he was being a jerk. It isn't unreasonable to ask someone when you'll see them again.
loverofloveandstuff Posted October 27, 2010 Posted October 27, 2010 I'd been with my bf since sat night and it's now wed and he had to go home for some friends birthday dinner tonight. As I was dropping him off at the station I said "so when can we see each other next?" He gave me this really puzzled, 'wtf' kinda face and was like "i've been with you for 5 days. We'll see each other again. In a few days". It was really awkward. Did I say the wrong thing or was he being a jerk? Often it's not what people say, it's how they say it. In saying that, no, there is nothing wrong with what you said. Maybe you misinterpreted how he said what he said. Or maybe he thought you were being pushy. Who knows. Unless you have the scene on tape (), there's nothing more to really gather.
Str8noChaser Posted October 27, 2010 Posted October 27, 2010 If i had just spent 5 days in a row with a girl & she asks when will I see you again, she'd get a WTF? face too! LoL Let him miss you a bit & ASK YOU when will HE get to see you again.
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