LovelyDaze Posted October 26, 2010 Posted October 26, 2010 (edited) It's been a year since I joined LS and have recovered from my own heartbreak. I've learned a LOT from so many great members and I learned something very important to get over being dumped: Do what you do not want to really do. That includes: * DON'T go to your ex's FACEBOOK. This is just asking for another stab wound to the heart. * DON'T seek information from mutual friends. In fact, ask those said friends to tell you NOTHING about your ex. NOTHING! * DON'T accept any e-mails, texts, or calls from your ex until you feel completely indifferent to them. Still love 'em? Then DON'T!!! * Speaking of which, DON'T send a text, call or e-mail regarding anything. Left your favorite blu-ray movie at their house? LEAVE IT! They left their running shoes in your closet? TOSS IT OUT! You have just ONE last thing to say? F*** IT! I had urges to break NC (and have in the past) that turned out to be a worse consequence than I ever imagined. PLEASE...break ALL ties with your ex so that you can feel happy again and you will if you just DON'T do what you want to do to stay in your ex's life. Edited October 26, 2010 by LovelyDaze
Chance_taker Posted October 26, 2010 Posted October 26, 2010 Very wise words of advice. If you break NC before you're healed and don't receive the results you're hoping for you will open up old wounds all over again.
Author LovelyDaze Posted October 26, 2010 Author Posted October 26, 2010 Thanks guys! It's always hard to let go completely. I couldn't bare deleting text messages and deleting my Facebook. It was just the right thing for me to do when I saw that re-reading old love messages and seeing how happy my ex was without me, was killing me inside everyday. THIS is what they mean by a "new normal" It's filled with so much hope for the future!
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