smk Posted October 26, 2010 Posted October 26, 2010 so i just had the ex send me an e-mail saying she is deleting me off her fb. now here is the background: we broke up 4 1/2 months ago and since then lots have happened - we havent had complete NC for various reasons but we only spoke when i called the office and she would answer (she works for a business i part own but am not their regularly) and i broke NC 2 weeks ago because i heard her mum was ill and texted her. so i wnet out to a party on saturday and she was there and i supposedly ignored her and my friends apparently gave her some looks so this has offended her and she feels that too much has happened and since we dont speak there is no point of me being on her FB. I was pretty wasted at the party even before she got there and supposedly she came to wish me happy birthday (it was my b'day) and i apparently ignored her - yet i dont even remember her speaking to me. what do i say - do i respond? i have no idea...
PegNosePete Posted October 26, 2010 Posted October 26, 2010 She is right. There is no point being friends on FB. If she hasn't deleted you yet then go delete her first! Should have done it 3 months ago dude
WTRanger Posted October 26, 2010 Posted October 26, 2010 You say nothing at all, and be glad she's deleting you. You two are no longer an item, so really there is no need to keep you on FB. Look at some of the threads where people still have ex's on FB and many months later they are still pining away, looking at pictures, getting crushed when the ex gets into a new relationship, etc. Be glad that's not going to be you.
Author smk Posted October 26, 2010 Author Posted October 26, 2010 I completely understand where you guys are coming from, but it was just pretty random... She could obviously tell I was out of it, and she web phoned me yesterday to say she wasn't going into work yet didn't mention anything then all of a sudden this - it's almost as if she is trying to get me to say something to her. I did reply to her email and told her exactly how drunk I was on Saturday and that I genuinely didn't remember and that if that's what she wanted then it's her decision to make and that it didn't really make a difference to my life if she was on my fb or not - to which I received another text claiming she also didn't like the way my friends were looking at her... I get the impression that she just wants to pick a fight with me or something - what's the point it's been 4.5 months...
PegNosePete Posted October 27, 2010 Posted October 27, 2010 Sounds like she is an unflushable. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k7NOQ3-TCb8
YellowShark Posted October 27, 2010 Posted October 27, 2010 Oh gosh. Deleting you off Facebook? How will you ever survive smk? Look everyone, Facebook is NOTHING, it means NOTHING, the earth survived for billions of years prior to Facebook being created 6 short years ago! Mankind functioned without Facebook for generations too... and so will you. Don't measure your self-worth using Facebook as the yardstick, that's so damn highschool.
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