Foxymophandle Posted October 26, 2010 Posted October 26, 2010 So I was with my GF (now ex I guess) for almost a year. She got offered a job out of college to teach English in Turkey until July and took it as I still have a semester and a half to go in college. Well the plan was for us to stay together during her time in Turkey, then a week after she gets there she thinks we should put things on hold. Okay I guess I can live with that. Then three days later she wants to be official again. Week after that she changes her mind again to being on hold. The thing is we still e-mail, chat, and Skype on a pretty regular basis. She still says "I love you" and says that she is still "In love with me," and I tell her the same things. We even talk about our future together and where we want to live when she gets back. I know she wants her space right now while she is away and I am trying my hardest not to constantly send her e-mails and I am doing pretty good at it. I guess I really don't know what I am asking for, I just don't know why she doesn't want to "officially" be in a relationship. I'm just missing her a lot at this point and its only been one month.
PegNosePete Posted October 26, 2010 Posted October 26, 2010 The biggest reason that someone would not want to be in a relationship, is so they can explore other options. Most likely she has either met someone else, or wants to play the field a bit. Sorry dude.
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