havehope Posted October 25, 2010 Posted October 25, 2010 Ok so after I was cheated on, I got this line from him: "There's a difference between sex and making love. It was only sex with her - you're the only one I've made love to." Is that true? I guess because I can't really separate intimacy with love, and I've only been with with someone I've loved, I legitly can't say if there is a difference. Regardless we're not together anymore and he's still with her
Dexter Morgan Posted October 25, 2010 Posted October 25, 2010 its a line spoken by alot of dumbasses who think they are slick...who think you are weak minded enough to buy it and stay with him. he thinks you'll be wrapped around his finger. besides, cheating is cheating....lets say he really means what he says:sick:....then what he is saying is that as long as you are the only one he "makes love" to, that just having sex with other women means nothing..........and he'll keep doing it as long as you allow it. So don't allow it....dump this ditchpig.
BlueRidgeMTs Posted October 25, 2010 Posted October 25, 2010 Regardless we're not together anymore and he's still with her There is your answer right there when it comes to cheating. Cheating is cheating, I dont care WHAT defintion someone wants to put on it. And he told you that crock of bullsh*t to try to cover himself, or make himself look better. There are people who can have sex with other people without putting too much, if any, emotional involvement in it. But what the heck difference does it make? He still f----d her, and cheated on you.
YellowShark Posted October 25, 2010 Posted October 25, 2010 "There's a difference between sex and making love. It was only sex with her - you're the only one I've made love to." What a line. That is a corny rationalization to defend from what was is indefensible.. your boyfriend cheating on you.
Author havehope Posted October 25, 2010 Author Posted October 25, 2010 thanks for both of your inputs... I appreciate it! And I'm thankful I got out when I did - I'm so done with a cheater (an unnegotiable deal-breaker). It was just something I was curious to see if some people truly believe that way or not. "if they were dumb enough to walk away, then be smart enough to let them go"
BrokenArrow1987 Posted October 25, 2010 Posted October 25, 2010 im happy you didn't get suckered by this guy you should give yourself some credit for not being fooled this lame excuse.
PegNosePete Posted October 26, 2010 Posted October 26, 2010 Some people separate love from sex, and happily have open relationships. But that has to be arranged in advance with both parties full knowledge and approval. If you cheat and then use this line, it's just a pathetic excuse and attempt to manipulate you and not take responsibility for his actions. Glad you spotted it for what it was.
loverofloveandstuff Posted October 26, 2010 Posted October 26, 2010 its a line spoken by alot of dumbasses who think they are slick...who think you are weak minded enough to buy it and stay with him. Yeah, it reminds me of 'I love you, I'm just not IN love with you.' Anyways, this guy sounds like a douche. He cheated on you, and now he's with the girl he cheated on you with. And now he's basically emotionally cheating on his now girlfriend by feeding you this bs? This guy has issues.
Jambalaya Posted October 26, 2010 Posted October 26, 2010 Oh dear - that's the sister line to "I was thinking of you the whole time"
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