Cuchara2 Posted October 25, 2010 Posted October 25, 2010 So I was at a club on Saturday night with a bunch of friends, we were all drinking so people were drunk and got all frisky etc. So to get to the point, I hooked up with one of my ex's friends (known to be kinda whorey and not too attractive tbh) and then 2 other girls (my friends say 3 but I think they're taking the piss with the third one or I seriously beer goggled). Now my first question is, how bad is what I did? I don't care about my ex any more in the sense that I don't feel sad or whatever about her, but I care enough to not do anything to intentionally hurt her and I'm worried this might be something that will hurt her. P.s. none of us have hooked up with anyone since the break up so I'm not sure how she'll react to it either. So my next question is how will she react? I mean she's not really a jealous person (well she is, but usually she won't show it). I've been NC'ing for about a month now and recently I think she's started to change her mind about the break up. She seems to want to try and talk to me, she seems to be where I am all the time and when she asked me a question and I just shrugged on Friday, she said "You can talk you know", to which I replied "I dunno and I know I can talk but this is easier". My final question is, what's up with all this woman interest? I mean I know I'm not an ugly looking dude (Not trying to show off or something) but I don't see myself as the person who gets all the women, but since the break up I've been getting loads of signs and what not from women at school or out and around. It was a long relationship - 2 years so I might have missed a lot of this because my relationship was during puberty, but seriously? Is this normal after a long relationship?
thatsonlyme Posted October 25, 2010 Posted October 25, 2010 F**k it man, I don't see anything wrong with what you did. She's your ex, you can hook up with whoever you want! I can't wait until my ex moves to California so I can start hooking up with her coworkers
Author Cuchara2 Posted October 25, 2010 Author Posted October 25, 2010 Forgot to mention that she hasn't heard about this yet because she's away if that says anything.
Author Cuchara2 Posted October 26, 2010 Author Posted October 26, 2010 Well she found out and is VERY ****ing angry I believe. She wrote all this stuff to her friend on facebook (which she knew I'd see) about how there is something she's gonna laugh at in her "inbox" and how it's "HAHAHAHHAHA PATHETIC". I don't know what to think. Any outsider suggestions?
Capital P Posted October 26, 2010 Posted October 26, 2010 Yea, dont apologise If you apologise you will come off as week and it will be seen as more of an issue. If she does say anything just say so what, i was drunk and having a good time, we arent an item anymore so who cares **** her dude. If she broke up with you she is going to have to live with you getting with people
Mimolicious Posted October 26, 2010 Posted October 26, 2010 To your disfortune, we are not her to answer questions that you want to know HER answers... Wait and see what happens but from the sounds of things, you have little regards for what she may think or feel.
MalachXaviel Posted October 27, 2010 Posted October 27, 2010 If you were wanting to get back together, then it probably wasn't the wisest choice. If she hooks up with two or three of your friends is it going to bug you?
Author Cuchara2 Posted October 28, 2010 Author Posted October 28, 2010 If you were wanting to get back together, then it probably wasn't the wisest choice. If she hooks up with two or three of your friends is it going to bug you? Well I've waited for what.. two nearly three months now? If anything if she's thinking about saying something to me it will speed her up as she sees I'm moving on (that's what I think).
Capital P Posted October 28, 2010 Posted October 28, 2010 She dumped you. She does not care at the mo. She is probably screwing someone right now, so **** her feelings seriously. If you apologise she will think you are more of a pussy. Stand by your actions. When my ex broke up with me my friend saw her in town looking hot. I came on a board and was told "she is angry and trying to get you out of her mind" Well from what i heard after she was sick of me chasing, even though i ****ing wasnt. So she was clearly out trying to get some dick. Dont look at the situaiton with her n a good light, even though you want to. She ****ed you over, she broke up with you. Screw her, thats more attractive than doing stuff and apologising believe me
Author Cuchara2 Posted October 28, 2010 Author Posted October 28, 2010 She probably isn't out looking for some random dude to **** but it wouldn't surprise me if she's looking to do lower-key stuff with other people. I totally agree with you btw because yes, she did **** me over. And yes, I did get told that she was sick of me chasing although I really wasn't.
Capital P Posted October 29, 2010 Posted October 29, 2010 Girls love sex dude, more than men do. My ex rang me to tell me about some other dude she screwed. Then sent me pics asking for sex, then when i said yes she blanked me. All that time i wanted to see her in a good light , but that was for my own sakes. If you ex ain ****ing you then shes looking to **** someone, so go do it before she does
Banega100 Posted October 31, 2010 Posted October 31, 2010 Girls love sex dude, more than men do. My ex rang me to tell me about some other dude she screwed. Then sent me pics asking for sex, then when i said yes she blanked me. All that time i wanted to see her in a good light , but that was for my own sakes. If you ex ain ****ing you then shes looking to **** someone, so go do it before she does mate im quoting that, that's golden.
Author Cuchara2 Posted November 1, 2010 Author Posted November 1, 2010 (edited) She dumped you. She does not care at the mo. She is probably screwing someone right now, so **** her feelings seriously. If you apologise she will think you are more of a pussy. Stand by your actions. When my ex broke up with me my friend saw her in town looking hot. I came on a board and was told "she is angry and trying to get you out of her mind" Well from what i heard after she was sick of me chasing, even though i ****ing wasnt. So she was clearly out trying to get some dick. Dont look at the situaiton with her n a good light, even though you want to. She ****ed you over, she broke up with you. Screw her, thats more attractive than doing stuff and apologising believe me I'm actually confused as hell by my ex. I'd expect her to go do this, but she hasn't. She went to a club, didn't do **** although she had plenty of chances to - she rejected 3 - 4 people (a couple of buddies were there and saw). It's been nearly three months now, many people have asked her out and she's rejected them. What's going on? o__O Oh yeah I'm also out here living it out trying to get rid of feelings for her. Edited November 1, 2010 by Cuchara2
Capital P Posted November 1, 2010 Posted November 1, 2010 Guys are morons. So the chances of her meeting a confident guy to sweep her off her feet is slim. But that is what she is looking for. Dont think she is holding back for your sake, she isnt. She wants to get ****ed badly. But not by you. She aint finding the right guy. So rather than wait for her , remember that there are thousands of women in the same position, and go **** them, Go out, sober, be confident and hit on women. once you are ****ing 3 hot women at the same time, then come back here and tell me if you still think about your ex. I very much doubt it She ain
Banega100 Posted November 1, 2010 Posted November 1, 2010 Guys are morons. So the chances of her meeting a confident guy to sweep her off her feet is slim. But that is what she is looking for. Dont think she is holding back for your sake, she isnt. She wants to get ****ed badly. But not by you. She aint finding the right guy. So rather than wait for her , remember that there are thousands of women in the same position, and go **** them, Go out, sober, be confident and hit on women. once you are ****ing 3 hot women at the same time, then come back here and tell me if you still think about your ex. I very much doubt it She ain Ohhhhh Maaannn! This right here is the truth. Thread closed gentlemen. Keep the good stuff coming man
Author Cuchara2 Posted November 1, 2010 Author Posted November 1, 2010 (edited) Guys are morons. So the chances of her meeting a confident guy to sweep her off her feet is slim. But that is what she is looking for. Dont think she is holding back for your sake, she isnt. She wants to get ****ed badly. But not by you. She aint finding the right guy. So rather than wait for her , remember that there are thousands of women in the same position, and go **** them, Go out, sober, be confident and hit on women. once you are ****ing 3 hot women at the same time, then come back here and tell me if you still think about your ex. I very much doubt it She ain I'm 18, she's 17, both at school still so it's kinda a little harder to find 3 women to shag at once. I did one who was an old friend of mine, fit as hell but I dunno why she's still on my mind. It takes the piss that I still think about her - I want to take her out of it because I've come to terms with the fact that she doesn't want me back or care any more. Shall I remove every aspect of her from my life? Gifts, letters, emails, delete facebook, msn and skype accounts even though I see her every day of my life? I don't want to seem like an ******* but then again I don't care if it hurts her if it will make me better. Edit - I've already crammed all the stuff she gave me in a box and lost it somewhere in a cupboard Edited November 1, 2010 by Cuchara2
Banega100 Posted November 1, 2010 Posted November 1, 2010 you know the answe here man. If those things are preventing you from letting go then they have to go. Or failing that, but all the sht in a bag and put it away, or in the attic or something.
Capital P Posted November 1, 2010 Posted November 1, 2010 Look dude, what is going to make her more attracted to you? You sitting there crying into her facebook or hoping she graces you on skype. Or, say she doesnt hear from you at all for a few days. You have taken her off ALL of your social media. She sees you at school, you have a new haircut, some new clothes. You look happy and are in the company of other women , smiling and joking. At that point your dick is off the table, and thats when it becomes valuable to her stupid ****ing ego. And dude , school is the BEST place to get laid. EVER. Period!!!!! Go hang with new social circles, organise an event. Put yourself in the position that you are arranging stuff and women gravitate towards you.
Author Cuchara2 Posted November 2, 2010 Author Posted November 2, 2010 Look dude, what is going to make her more attracted to you? You sitting there crying into her facebook or hoping she graces you on skype. Or, say she doesnt hear from you at all for a few days. You have taken her off ALL of your social media. She sees you at school, you have a new haircut, some new clothes. You look happy and are in the company of other women , smiling and joking. At that point your dick is off the table, and thats when it becomes valuable to her stupid ****ing ego. And dude , school is the BEST place to get laid. EVER. Period!!!!! Go hang with new social circles, organise an event. Put yourself in the position that you are arranging stuff and women gravitate towards you. Hahaha you have the wrong type of school. My school = stuck up rich bitches, ugly ass rich bitches, the occasional hottie who's a total whore and one or two miracles (either my ex or taken). I don't mind putting up with the bitches but no relationships. However, they don't give that **** up which is frustrating. I'm doing everything you've said without you needing to tell me You give great advice btw!
Capital P Posted November 3, 2010 Posted November 3, 2010 Im from the UK man but if i were from the US i would just internet date. You guys have loads of hot chicks on there. There is a book online called window shopping for women, a guy i know wrote it. It tells you how to set up your profile, how to open girls, how to respond and how to F them as fast as possible. Get on your internet dating and make sure there is a different hottie waiting for you outside school every day. As soon as that starts to happen girls at your school will pay you more attention and you can bang those rich bitches left right n centre.
Author Cuchara2 Posted November 3, 2010 Author Posted November 3, 2010 (edited) Wrong country lol, I'm living in Greece I don't really care much any more about her, although I found out she's missing me loads and might be reconsidering the break up.. Apparently my reputation is also much better than I thought it was - I supposedly got with 8 girls in one night. Little ex'y found out about this haha. She acts all weird with my best friend which is funny because she only does it when I'm around him I actually laugh at this ****. Edited November 3, 2010 by Cuchara2
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