Ash20 Posted October 25, 2010 Posted October 25, 2010 I stopped talking to this friend of mine (who also happens to be my ex bf from high school) because he still tries to make me feel guilty for breaking up with him (it has been 4 years since we broke up), and tries to make me feel like everything bad in that relationship (which was a lot) was my fault and not his. I tried to establish a nice friendship with him, but it wasn't worth it. I haven't spoken to him since last spring. Last night he text me saying he's really depressed and on the verge of suicide. He had pulled these stunts during our relationship, but I do not take suicide talk lightly. My current bf is pissed off at him because of the way he messed with my head before and wants his number so he can tell him to f*ck off. I don't think this is a good idea, incase my friend is not joking. I don't know what to do.
quankanne Posted October 25, 2010 Posted October 25, 2010 contact his family and tell them they need to know that he's suicidal, then block his number. if it's for real, he'll get the help he needs; if it's a stunt, he's busted. Either way, you need to remove him from your contact lists/block him or even change your phone number because this is unhealthy behavior on his end.
Author Ash20 Posted October 26, 2010 Author Posted October 26, 2010 Thanks for the advice I actually think his family is the root of his issues. They are very strange people. When I broke up with him, my mom talked to his mom right before I broke up with him because he was threatening suicide, but she blamed everything on me. But yes, I will give your suggestion a try and warn them and then put it out of my mind.
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