What is this?

[urbanite]

This is a common thread amongst members. I was out with some friends Thursday night and chatted up a beautiful blonde. We got along well, heavy dancing, and we both seemed to have fun with laughs and good convo.

 

Ended up texting her friday briefly just to see how she was doing and got an ok response. I decided to gauge her interest just by sending a smirk response, leaving her the option of not responding or continuing the exchange. She did respond with a witty line of her own.

 

The issue is, I decided to call her day time today with no response. I'm stunned because I usually do this routine and it always has a good success rate. Especially the ones that respond to the one liner text when they don't have to usually lead to good phone convos, dates and so on.

 

She was responsive at the lounge, gave me her number and made sure she had mines, and responsive in texts and seemed like it had potential, only to not pick up? Does this seem like games, or genuine disinterest? Whats the next best move. I usually don't dwell too much and move on to the next, but I am genuinely interested in her based off how we vibed and the fact that she is one of the few that doesn't show interest in me.

[LittleTiger]

Maybe she was busy.

[angielove]

Yeah dude, maybe she didn't have her phone on her. Try calling again later!

[mitchell]

Call again, she was likely busy.

 

Perhaps she is just playing it a bit cool to see how interested you really are?

[urbanite]

would it be better to just drop it, send a indifferent text or try and call again?

[mogul]

I hate it when girls do this, send all the signals like they are interested, respond to texts and don't pick up and thats the end of it. It would be alot simpler if they outright give you their number or don't.

 

How old did she seem anyways, it varies with women by age alot and like someone else already said, she could be playing a game and gauging your interest.