zero_pistons Posted October 25, 2010 Posted October 25, 2010 So this girl i was talking to/text-flirting with after I broke up with my ex and I started talking again after about a month. We stopped talking when my ex and her became "friends", the vindictive move my ex pulled after she found out we were talking. This girl told me she stopped talking to me because she didn't want to have any drama or bull**** involving my ex; old me that one night her and my ex were out and my ex had this drunken breakdown with her, now this girl says she "doesn't want to be on my ex's bad side, because she's crazy. And I thought maybe you were just trying to get with me to get back at your ex. (NOT true) She is being like a friendemy." I told her that before we stopped talking the first time, but figured i'd let the situation cool and see what happened. Lately she's been asking if im trying to just get in her pants and i've been VERY CLEAR that i'm into her for a lot more than her killer bdy. Last few days she's been giving me all the signs that she's into me. The last two days we had planned to go to he hometown together to pick up a car, she said she would make me dinner and she said she would go to a movie with me. Everytime she bails. We were supposed to leave this morning at 730am, and i get a bunch of drunk text messages from her at 4 am, calling me gorgeous and sweetheart and stuff. then she says she feels like **** in the morning and doesn't respond anymore after 10 am.. What game is she playing here? What's the point?
Author zero_pistons Posted October 25, 2010 Author Posted October 25, 2010 And as i write that last post, shes texting me again....wtf?
welikeincrowds Posted October 25, 2010 Posted October 25, 2010 Drunken flirtatious texts at 4am are enough to make me want to call Verizon and get a number blocked. Do you really care why? Do you really care what she thinks at all? She stood you up. She doesn't deserve your attention. And I know you're only telling us one part of the story here, but this: she didn't want to have any drama or bull**** involving my ex Made me laugh out loud, because that's exactly what she was doing -- causing drama between the two of you, with your ex as the catalyst. And personally, I also hate the "Are you just trying to get into my pants?" question. It's not even good to flirt with, and if it's serious, wow, don't flatter yourself. And show some respect. If I was just trying to get into your pants, you would know, because I would have made sure of it. I'm sorry, I'm clearly getting biased here. I don't like this girl. I'm sure she's great. Just don't waste your time.
LiveWell Posted October 25, 2010 Posted October 25, 2010 Lately she's been asking if im trying to just get in her pants and i've been VERY CLEAR that i'm into her for a lot more than her killer bdy. The correct answer to her question was: "Yes I am definitely looking forward to making sweet love to you and am open to more than that if things roll that way." Watch out OP, you are dangerously close to friend-zoning yourself. This chick is for banging, not romancing.
Author zero_pistons Posted October 25, 2010 Author Posted October 25, 2010 WHY try and cause drama using my ex as the catalyst? The past is the past, I've moved on and want nothing to do with my ex anymore. Doesn't make sense to me. Just trying to understand. I haven't dated in almost four years. I'm into this girl and seems like she's into me, but I'm sick of playing games. I told her i want to spend some time with her and see how it goes. Simple as that, because it IS that simple. She never responded, and i guarantee when i see her tomorrow she will say she is sorry she fell asleep, then start flirting and being hot-and-cold all over again. Today her excuse was that she left her phone on the nightstand all day. What's the point? Some sort of self-validation thing where she's trying to see how long she can string me along? Or is she feeling me out? Again, just trying to learn from this and understand. I need to meet people outside of work, but when your working 6 days a week the only people you meet are the people you see at work everyday. This sure is a lot harder than it was back in college. I'm not sure what i even want right now, but for some reason i cant get this girl out of my head. And i dont know why.
utterer of lies Posted October 25, 2010 Posted October 25, 2010 WHY try and cause drama using my ex as the catalyst? The past is the past, I've moved on and want nothing to do with my ex anymore. Doesn't make sense to me. Just trying to understand. I haven't dated in almost four years. I'm into this girl and seems like she's into me, but I'm sick of playing games. I told her i want to spend some time with her and see how it goes. Simple as that, because it IS that simple. She never responded, and i guarantee when i see her tomorrow she will say she is sorry she fell asleep, then start flirting and being hot-and-cold all over again. Today her excuse was that she left her phone on the nightstand all day. What's the point? Some sort of self-validation thing where she's trying to see how long she can string me along? Or is she feeling me out? Again, just trying to learn from this and understand. I need to meet people outside of work, but when your working 6 days a week the only people you meet are the people you see at work everyday. This sure is a lot harder than it was back in college. I'm not sure what i even want right now, but for some reason i cant get this girl out of my head. And i dont know why. Who cares what's up with her. Go **** someone else to fix your perspective. If afterwards you still want all the drama/this girl, you'll be able to handle everything in a better, more relaxed fashion.
Author zero_pistons Posted October 25, 2010 Author Posted October 25, 2010 done that. I've been with (had sex with) two other girls in the month we didn't talk. Your right though, there's probably no point in giving her the time of day anymore.
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