nice-easy-day Posted October 25, 2010 Posted October 25, 2010 Hello. Just thought I would run this past you all and see what you think. Met a girl at a party in my town and we went out three times. Movies, ballgame, nice dinner and what not. We both had a great time and she even kissed me on the last date followed by the typical "I had a wonderful time" text that girls send. The weird thing is our relationship hasn't expanded past the "going out" part. What I mean by this is, in ALL my past relationships by this point I'd be talking on the phone everyday, texting all the time, you know the fireworks! The fireworks are there when we are together. We just don't converse much at all in between. It's been 'tit for tat' that hasn't expanded. So what's up with this??? I'm all for taking it slow but it seems so weird because I have ever experienced it this way before. I'm not complaining either. Actually, I like the extra space but is it a bad sign or something?
daphne Posted October 25, 2010 Posted October 25, 2010 Not necessarily. Guys will tell you it's a bad sign. But there are girls who like to get to know you as friends first before they invest more. If she's enthusiastic and flirty, she's interested. Also, if she kissed you first, she's interested. Or at least she was when she did it. Fireworks are highly overrated. Chemistry is important, but fireworks for me has always ended in someone getting burned BADLY
Author nice-easy-day Posted October 25, 2010 Author Posted October 25, 2010 fireworks for me has always ended in someone getting burned BADLY You're preaching to the choir on that one. That's why I don't mind things going slow like they are. Just wanted to make sure I didn't have the blinders on.
Author nice-easy-day Posted October 25, 2010 Author Posted October 25, 2010 Not much response on this one. I was hoping to hear from people that had experience with relationships that "went slow" and how it worked out for them in the end.
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