going to see my ex next week and im a bit scared

[swfc_77]

been asked to dj at a place she calls her local, she will be there how do i approach it?

[GrayClouds]

been asked to dj at a place she calls her local, she will be there how do i approach it?

 

Be polite, to the point and project that your doing well and having fun. I suggest that you bring a a buddy to hang with and keep you from doing something dumb.

[Username37]

been asked to dj at a place she calls her local, she will be there how do i approach it?

 

Get some people to go with you. So that way you can have your own fun on your spare time.

[swfc_77]

we both have the same mutual friends, but i'll be ok. kind of hoping she doesn't talk to me or stare across at me.

[Username37]

we both have the same mutual friends, but i'll be ok. kind of hoping she doesn't talk to me or stare across at me.

 

Well since you have mutual friends, then be civil, but don't engage in conversation with her. A simple hi would be good. If she looks, flash a smile.

[swfc_77]

im hoping she will be working and not be there but knowing my look she will be, its in the very room we met. lol.

 

its going to be hard because if she ignores me and doesn't even say hello, it will hurt because not so long ago we were a serious item

 

on the flip side if she is nice and starts asking how i am and about our cat (who lives with me) which she has never been down to see, im scared the feelings might return.

 

going to be very hard which ever way it goes as im so use to freely puttin my arm around her and grabbing her for a hug and a kiss.

[redy2]

just dont freak out if she is there with someone else

[shayan]

be cold, but polite, disconnected you know what I mean.

 

that's what it takes.