dispatch3d Posted October 25, 2010 Posted October 25, 2010 Why post a pic of another woman on A dating site of you with a female friend? Tell me why, as a guy, what the motive is from your perspective? I'd actually love to hear your perspective on how this makes you more attractive to a stable female seeking a relationship. Because I like the picture, think I look good in it. It triggers some preselection stuff in most girls. Except you haha. But anyways, it just shows I can be friends with girls and that i"m not one of those guys who is only friends with guys. Keep in mind in my case its not like I'm hanging out with 10 guys all thetime, then one time I hang out with girls and get a picture with them and use that. I do have friends who are girls and think it's kinda dumb to just not use the photos because their is a girl in it. Mind you I don't have pictures of myself making out with other girls, or have pictures of girls I previously dated. I think that would fall into what you are talking about. I'm not trying to setup "competition" for you or anything. You would also have to be okay with my female friendships if we dated anyways.......
jerbear Posted October 25, 2010 Posted October 25, 2010 Ahhh...rebounds. So if she's ugly and she winks you'll still email her? As funny as it is here, it might come across a little cheeky online if someone doesn't know you. I do return the emails and will say no-thanks. I did say you win an email but not a date!
Author daphne Posted October 25, 2010 Author Posted October 25, 2010 I do return the emails and will say no-thanks. I did say you win an email but not a date! That sounds like the false advertising people do when they stick up 10 year old photos! Btw, the db told me that 90% of the women he had met online were larger than their photos or they chose really old photos. Have you found that to be true? I find that pretty misleading.
jerbear Posted October 25, 2010 Posted October 25, 2010 That sounds like the false advertising people do when they stick up 10 year old photos! Btw, the db told me that 90% of the women he had met online were larger than their photos or they chose really old photos. Have you found that to be true? I find that pretty misleading. 10 year old pictures, not really. My oldest pic is about 4 years old and I mention it. The newest is under 1 year old. So they get to see progression versus point in time. I have not taken new pictures since the start of the year. Last year I was bigger and now I'm average. I have seen old pictures and to give the women credit, it could be a medical condition as I have seen thyroid issues making women big within one year. So even pictures within a year can still deceive. I'm very picky when in comes to women. The first date / meeting usually weeds them out quick. The girl I'm seeing now, 4 dates within two weeks. Her pictures are recent and within 3 years depending on which one. She has not "changed" much. If there was a pic of me now, the hair would have highlights, clothes would be different, and glasses / contacts have changed. I have changed since early this year and physically changed since May.
Author daphne Posted October 25, 2010 Author Posted October 25, 2010 10 year old pictures, not really. My oldest pic is about 4 years old and I mention it. The newest is under 1 year old. So they get to see progression versus point in time. I have not taken new pictures since the start of the year. Last year I was bigger and now I'm average. I have seen old pictures and to give the women credit, it could be a medical condition as I have seen thyroid issues making women big within one year. So even pictures within a year can still deceive. I'm very picky when in comes to women. The first date / meeting usually weeds them out quick. The girl I'm seeing now, 4 dates within two weeks. Her pictures are recent and within 3 years depending on which one. She has not "changed" much. If there was a pic of me now, the hair would have highlights, clothes would be different, and glasses / contacts have changed. I have changed since early this year and physically changed since May. Sounds like you haven't met enough people to really form an opinion. That's good though. Picky is good.
Author daphne Posted October 25, 2010 Author Posted October 25, 2010 Oh noes. I was wrong. The guy wasn't trying to turn me off on purpose. He emailed today.
jerbear Posted October 25, 2010 Posted October 25, 2010 Sounds like you haven't met enough people to really form an opinion. That's good though. Picky is good. I target those that interests me, then the first date / meeting will weed out the bad apples. Oh noes. I was wrong. The guy wasn't trying to turn me off on purpose. He emailed today. Good luck! Honestly I suggest replying and say that you do not feel the chemistry and it will not work for you. Block his email, if he has your number change his name to "Do not answer"
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