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definitely think you should stay in this situation. You'll crush his self esteem if you getup cause he's literally so annoying you can't enjoy an hour long diner with the guy. Realize it's his fault not yours, but I prefer not to hurt people if there's a way around it.

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They always say "my best friend" in the caption. Yeah . . . right.
It goes both ways.

 

That's my douchebag test. Trust me, from here on out- steer clear of any guy that is inclined to put a pic in his profile of him with another chick.

 

There is only one reason a guy would do so... Because he is so insecure that he thinks he needs to display a prop to catch a woman's attention. Any guy that does this is looking to present competition before he even meets you!

 

When I see a profile with a guy that presents himself with pic of him with other women- he tells me everything I need to know about him....insecure douchebag.

 

If the woman in the picture isn't his mother, he's going to be drama.

I have to remember that, the same FB pic is on match. I have to change that. My FB pic has a hand but she is not in the picture.

 

I learned something new. My female critics didn't bring that up. :(

 

Live and learn- I've learned from trial and error- so I can pass on my mistakes and possibly give a head's up to others!:cool:

 

If a dude has pics of other woman on his profile, he doesn't think he measures up on his own... And I promise you, any guy that does that IS insecure and prone to drama.

I disagree with me but I can see what you mean about insecurity and drama.

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Hot :love:

 

Always works. :cool:

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That's my douchebag test. Trust me, from here on out- steer clear of any guy that is inclined to put a pic in his profile of him with another chick.

 

There is only one reason a guy would do so... Because he is so insecure that he thinks he needs to display a prop to catch a woman's attention. Any guy that does this is looking to present competition before he even meets you!

 

When I see a profile with a guy that presents himself with pic of him with other women- he tells me everything I need to know about him....insecure douchebag.

 

If the woman in the picture isn't his mother, he's going to be drama.

 

What about a pic of a guy smooching his pet Persian kitty? :p Or does that only work for the Rescue Ink guys, who I should mention, are very popular with the ladies - though I understand most, if not all of them, are married.

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What about a pic of a guy smooching his pet Persian kitty? :p Or does that only work for the Rescue Ink guys, who I should mention, are very popular with the ladies - though I understand most, if not all of them, are married.

 

 

Animals = pass.

Hooter's waitress= fail.

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That's my douchebag test. Trust me, from here on out- steer clear of any guy that is inclined to put a pic in his profile of him with another chick.

 

There is only one reason a guy would do so... Because he is so insecure that he thinks he needs to display a prop to catch a woman's attention. Any guy that does this is looking to present competition before he even meets you!

 

When I see a profile with a guy that presents himself with pic of him with other women- he tells me everything I need to know about him....insecure douchebag.

 

If the woman in the picture isn't his mother, he's going to be drama.

 

or the picture could have a girl in it because he is friends with girls?

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Animals = pass.

Hooter's waitress= fail.

 

 

Phew!!

 

Not that I have a pic of it yet. I dont even have an acting OLD profile so this may never be relevant.

 

But good to know for future reference!

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Animals = pass.

Hooter's waitress= fail.

 

How about Playboy PlaymateS? :lmao: and holding animals?

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or the picture could have a girl in it because he is friends with girls?

 

Why post a pic of another woman on A dating site of you with a female friend? Tell me why, as a guy, what the motive is from your perspective?

 

I'd actually love to hear your perspective on how this makes you more attractive to a stable female seeking a relationship.

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How about Playboy PlaymateS? :lmao: and holding animals?

 

Playboy playmates= fail

puppies= pass.

 

Guys that include pics in their DATING proflile of themselves with Hooter's waitresses, nascar girls at some convention, random bar girls, and random bar whores in a booby top, is not going to score points with most girls that are worthy of dating.

 

It's going to put you in the category of "loser- delete":rolleyes:

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Playboy playmates= fail

puppies= pass.

 

Guys that include pics in their DATING proflile of themselves with Hooter's waitresses, nascar girls at some convention, random bar girls, and random bar whores in a booby top, is not going to score points with most girls that are worthy of dating.

 

It's going to put you in the category of "loser- delete":rolleyes:

 

I'll have to remember that and change the online dating profile picture.:eek::)

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I'd actually love to hear your perspective on how this makes you more attractive to a stable female seeking a relationship.

 

:lmao::lmao:

 

Who said they're looking for a stable relationship or female?

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I'll have to remember that and change the online dating profile picture.:eek::)

 

Jer, please tell me you don't have your arms around a blonde bimbo with a boob job sporting a nascar hat in your profile, lol.

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Jer, please tell me you don't have your arms around a blonde bimbo with a boob job sporting a nascar hat in your profile, lol.

 

Uh no... it is the same pic on my main FB profile pic.

 

I'm not into blonde bimbo with boob job sporting a nascar hat.

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:lmao::lmao:

 

Who said they're looking for a stable relationship or female?

 

Daphne, are you saying you are an unstable male:lmao:?

Meh, Jk girl...

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Uh no... it is the same pic on my main FB profile pic.

 

I'm not into blonde bimbo with boob job sporting a nascar hat.

 

Your FB profile is of you in a sushi bar eating seaweed crackers off a naked body sucking back saki Jer... Not cool

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Your FB profile is of you in a sushi bar eating seaweed crackers off a naked body sucking back saki Jer... Not cool

 

OP, if you see that picture, it would be me. Do not go on a date with me! :lmao:

 

No wonder I get no dates. Actually I got 2 short ones, under 1 month, so there! :p:p (and I know how to use said tongue)

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I think skydiving is always a good first date

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OP, if you see that picture, it would be me. Do not go on a date with me! :lmao:

 

No wonder I get no dates. Actually I got 2 short ones, under 1 month, so there! :p:p (and I know how to use said tongue)

 

Physically short dates? As in under 5 feet? Or coffee gotta go dates?

 

Since I've learned to delete messages from guys with photos of a female in his profile, I'm thinking I will have to skip yours too...

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I think skydiving is always a good first date

 

You would...

 

I actually might agree tho. As long as there's no Ed Hardy apparel involved.

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Physically short dates? As in under 5 feet? Or coffee gotta go dates?

 

Since I've learned to delete messages from guys with photos of a female in his profile, I'm thinking I will have to skip yours too...

 

Short dates as in chemistry and one I briefly mentioned in the Off-topic thread. It was an intense 3 week, 3-4 times a week; I might be been a rebound but whatever.

 

I don't have a female in the picture but you can see her hand around my shoulder and yes I was smiling. It is possible that the hand and my being happy may not have helped me get dates. My profile shows I'm driven, educated and even a sense of humor. One line I added was this: "if you send me a wink, you win an email!" :lmao:

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I'm guessing you want me to eff-off?

No prob, and good luck.

 

Not at all. Did you read the link? I'm saying unstable and male are a pleonasm. I was trying to make a funny.

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Short dates as in chemistry and one I briefly mentioned in the Off-topic thread. It was an intense 3 week, 3-4 times a week; I might be been a rebound but whatever.

 

I don't have a female in the picture but you can see her hand around my shoulder and yes I was smiling. It is possible that the hand and my being happy may not have helped me get dates. My profile shows I'm driven, educated and even a sense of humor. One line I added was this: "if you send me a wink, you win an email!" :lmao:

 

Ahhh...rebounds.

 

So if she's ugly and she winks you'll still email her? As funny as it is here, it might come across a little cheeky online if someone doesn't know you. :)

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