mickeymouse Posted October 24, 2010 Posted October 24, 2010 my ex left me, 9 months ago, and our family after 12 years together, i always suspected he was having an emotional affaiir with his coworker whom he works closely with, actually so do all the coworkers. He denies it. At the end of the summer he was back around stating he regretted it and thought he still loved me and was going to go for counselling. For two month he was around every day, having supper with us and trying to get me to have sex, i would not, only play around. I asked him if there was anything with her and he stated he thought he was attracted to her but he is not and was wrong. Well all of sudden he got cold towards me and then called me to tell me he told his coworker that he has feeling for her and she stated she has feelings for him. whatever, he is gone for good i am moving on, buying my own house and so on. This girl has already left her husband and child for another married man before, she moved to our area to be with this married man, caused all kinds of havoc on his ex wife and this man was not really the sanest of them all. all during this reltionship over three years she was confiding in my husband when there were working, she and this married man broke up and after that at a party for their work she hitted on him in front of me, i spoke to her and everyone at the party was mortified at how blatant she was. my husband said he spoke to her about it. from then on she was with my husband every day, flirting with him and what ever. then she met someone new dated for about two months and was planning to find a job where this new man lived to close to him, i do not about her child and where she fit in this plan, however the man must have dumped her as she is a little unstable. then after we broke up and i beleive it has been going for at least year maybe not physically but he has definiteyly leaving the house to either see her or talk to her, then after xmas he left me, now he says he has feelings for her, crock of ****. my question is and it may sound pathetic but will this relationship for them work. our fellow coworkers cannot stand her they all think she is crazy and a homewrecker, as this is the second one. what do you think??
Don Ho Posted October 24, 2010 Posted October 24, 2010 I think he's a douche and it won't work out. He'll try to come groveling back to you for "his family". Fck that. Good for you, go out and buy your own house and put your life back on track. She sounds like a home wrecker and he's probably getting what he deserves!
tobydog Posted October 24, 2010 Posted October 24, 2010 I'm so sorry to hear your story, why do these men do it? I don't understand at all. I would say, given her history that there is very little chance it will work out. I'm in a similar situation, he denied there was an OW then it comes to light that there is. He still won't admit it but he will rue it not so long down the line. I suspect yours will too. Hopefully by then we will be stronger and tell them where to go! Take care x Debbie
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