rainman1974 Posted October 24, 2010 Posted October 24, 2010 Went out for drinks with my ex on thursday.. Started the night badly with her saying she was seeing someone.. Then somehow we went for dinner??!! It was like old times, funny, holding hands.. took her home and went our seperate ways. I think i told her i loved her.. Work the next day was fine too.. We emailed a couple of times.. Now it's Sunday and i'm depressed. I keep thinking of her with her man and it's driving me crazy. I can't sleep i can't eat.. I'm bloody depressed.. I have no will to do anything and only want to hold her.. BUT SHE IS WITH ANOTHER MAN and i can imagine them doing things.. It hurts!!
Leigh 87 Posted October 24, 2010 Posted October 24, 2010 Life sucks. This situation will hurt even the men who have the lives together and have eough outside of their relationships with the given women. Although if you have a clinical form of depression, especially something as serious in nature as manic depression, then dealing with these unpleasant situations with women, which do arise in life and are normal, then you will have A LOT of trouble in dealing with what this women is doing with this guy. I think you should talk to a therapist about the way you deal with women you have feelings for, who are with other men. it is normal to feel awful, but not in such an acute way.
bonpaw2008 Posted October 24, 2010 Posted October 24, 2010 I don't think you are depressed, this situation would mess anyone up. You need to ask yourself why she would go out with you, hold your hand, etc. if she is seeing someone else. Time for NC my friend, you need to get yourself away from her and the situation so you can heal. She has moved on, it is time for you to move on and not talk or see her. Good luck
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