Would you have enter into a relationship with a woman who can't go on birth control?

[jimbo]

Would you have enter into a relationship with a woman who can't go on birth control? It seems that it interferes with one of the meds she's already on. I have no problem with condoms, but sometimes condoms break or come off. Not really wanting to become a father at this time. So, she's off birth control as of yesterday, and I am at a cross roads. Men, what would you do?

[Feelin Frisky]

I don't need birth control. I prefer to orgasm outside just because it feels best to me. So, no need for the pill or IUDs or bags or implants or w/e. Some will argue about "pre-cum" but I have a couple of decades proof that it ain't happening for me. I'll continue to roll that die, tyvm.

[Els]

If you use condoms properly, there's a very low chance of failure. Otherwise, try utilizing the pull-out method or abstaining near ovulation (combined with condom use, of course).

 

Seems like you already have your mind made up though. In that case, you really should break up, as she deserves a guy who won't ditch her just because her meds interfere with BC.

[jimbo]

Its not just that. Its a host of other things. Seems like a nail in the coffin. She's very cold to me, tells me she not looking for anything serious with me anymore, brings her teenage son and his friend(s) to ALL of our dates on for or Saturday night. I have no problem hanging with them once or twice a week, its more that they come with us to the movies, dinner on Friday AND Saturday nights. She won't talk about it either. So, not sure if its a reason to get rid of me or the truth. Plus, I wasn't the one who pushed for her to go on the pill or for unprotected sex. She was the one who wanted me to get rid of the condoms. It just seem things turned to the worse. Her medical problems are surging, which I have no problem with. I do have a problem with the bitter and coldness she is not towards me. I have a problem with no alone time with just her and me. I think she just said this to get rid of me. Then again, she says I have no problems with you. But it seems you have some problems with me. Donno.

[Pfiend101]

Have her swallow it, then no babies.

[denise_xo]

Its not just that. Its a host of other things. Seems like a nail in the coffin. She's very cold to me, tells me she not looking for anything serious with me anymore, brings her teenage son and his friend(s) to ALL of our dates on for or Saturday night. I have no problem hanging with them once or twice a week, its more that they come with us to the movies, dinner on Friday AND Saturday nights. She won't talk about it either. So, not sure if its a reason to get rid of me or the truth. Plus, I wasn't the one who pushed for her to go on the pill or for unprotected sex. She was the one who wanted me to get rid of the condoms. It just seem things turned to the worse. Her medical problems are surging, which I have no problem with. I do have a problem with the bitter and coldness she is not towards me. I have a problem with no alone time with just her and me. I think she just said this to get rid of me. Then again, she says I have no problems with you. But it seems you have some problems with me. Donno.

 

So that's a different story altogether, no?

 

In terms of your OP, I won't and to some extent can't (for medical reason) take BC pills. Both of my long term partners have strongly felt that the pill generally isn't a good thing and have preferred condoms, so I've been lucky in that regard. If it breaks (which very rarely happens), we've done a morning after pill. This worked well for everyone involved.

[Tim The Enchanter]

Condoms are pretty reliable as far as contraception goes.