Mjcurry Posted October 24, 2010 Posted October 24, 2010 There is this girl ive been dating for almost a month and a half, but the last few weeks she has keeps rescheduling and cancelling dates, and then she always tells me she is busy with stuff all the time. (as far as I can tell she is between school and work) However, I asked her if this halloween if she wanted to spend it together and watch the new walking dead show, but she said she was going to a party. I told her I didnt have to go home this weekend and could stay in town and go with her. But she says go ahead and go home. I tell her to have a good time, and she said she will. I was so hurt, she can make time to go to a party, but not for me I only get to see her in class now adays. We were gonna go out monday and she rescheduled for thursday, then today she cancels to get something fixed on her car. Everytime she breaks one of these dates it leaves me to do nothing cause I break my plans or work ahead on something to be with her Am I being too selfish or should we break up?
yoga18 Posted October 24, 2010 Posted October 24, 2010 There is this girl ive been dating for almost a month and a half, but the last few weeks she has keeps rescheduling and cancelling dates, and then she always tells me she is busy with stuff all the time. (as far as I can tell she is between school and work) However, I asked her if this halloween if she wanted to spend it together and watch the new walking dead show, but she said she was going to a party. I told her I didnt have to go home this weekend and could stay in town and go with her. But she says go ahead and go home. I tell her to have a good time, and she said she will. I was so hurt, she can make time to go to a party, but not for me I only get to see her in class now adays. We were gonna go out monday and she rescheduled for thursday, then today she cancels to get something fixed on her car. Everytime she breaks one of these dates it leaves me to do nothing cause I break my plans or work ahead on something to be with her Am I being too selfish or should we break up? I'm a girl and I'm telling you to BE MEAN...erase the cows number from your phone, take her off your facebook, start looking elsewhere! This is a mean girl that you don't need. If she simply lost interest or doesn't like you she should have been HUMAN enough to have an adult conversation. Ignore her and when she comes around.....oh sorry I'm having some friends over maybe another time? That should sting a bit....karma what goes around comes around. Don't be her doormat and don't wait around
Weekender Posted October 24, 2010 Posted October 24, 2010 If this has been going on the last few weeks then you haven't been dating a month and a half. To be honest, she sounds a little immature and a little selfish. It may be that she isn't interested anymore and doesn't have the backbone to be honest with you. Are you dating exclusively? If not, find someone else more worthy of your time and company for Halloween. If you are, it's time to tell her how you feel and this is not working for you.
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