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First Date Went Amazing, 2nd Date How To Play It?

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I got this girls number last week, waited two days and then called her, we set up our first date for this past Friday and we went out. We had so much chemistry, and so much in common. We where very touchy flirty, and besides the things she said her facial expressions and body language was very very positive. So we discussed near the end of the 1st date about going out again. So I texted her the next day in the afternoon and just told her again that I had a great time with her and we should get together next Wednesday and watch a movie together (like we discussed) and she said "Okay I'll let you know what my schedule looks like and I will let you know."

 

So the main question is, the ball is in her court right now. So do you agree that I should absolutely not contact her at all and let her be the one to contact since she said she would let me know? I also don't want to seem to anxious, and to on top of her. I want her to wonder why I haven't texted her in 2 days and actually text me. I mean if she enjoyed the date as much as I did which I know she did, she should text me and I should be patient yes?

 

Also is what she replied back with a bad thing? She is a busy girl, works two jobs, and her texts seem very short and blunt but she is responding at work, am I thinking to much into this?

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My basic advice is "be yourself." The best version of yourself that is you know confident, respectful ect.

 

Basicly what that means is cool down, don't be insecure, If you want to call then call, and for god sakes don't be afraid of rejection and act fake and safe. BE YOURSELF and risk getting rejected.

 

I got this girls number last week, waited two days and then called her, we set up our first date for this past Friday and we went out. We had so much chemistry, and so much in common. We where very touchy flirty, and besides the things she said her facial expressions and body language was very very positive. So we discussed near the end of the 1st date about going out again. So I texted her the next day in the afternoon and just told her again that I had a great time with her and we should get together next Wednesday and watch a movie together (like we discussed) and she said "Okay I'll let you know what my schedule looks like and I will let you know."

 

Why did you "get this girls number" then "waited two days and then called?"

 

You should have asked her out right there in person and not played the wait two days to call game. Seriously you may think ur waiting two days game helped you out but all it did was RISK you seeming lame and her forgetting you. The smartest game would have been to have asked her out right away.

 

Same goes for your current situation you should have asked her out in person toward the end of your date. You also messed up by not kissing her if you didn't do that. But it was good that you guys were flirty and touchy... sounds fun.

 

So the main question is' date=' the ball is in her court right now. So do you agree that I should absolutely not contact her at all and let her be the one to contact since she said she would let me know? I also don't want to seem to anxious, and to on top of her. I want her to wonder why I haven't texted her in 2 days and actually text me. I mean if she enjoyed the date as much as I did which I know she did, she should text me and I should be patient yes?[/quote']

 

I think you need to stop playing games. Just call her wednesday afternoon and make sure plans for the movies is still on. I hope to god you invited her out to the movies and not back to your place as that is a little foward (not a bad idea if thats what your going for).

 

Also is what she replied back with a bad thing? She is a busy girl' date=' works two jobs, and her texts seem very short and blunt but she is responding at work, am I thinking to much into this? [/quote']

 

Yes you are definetly thinking about this all to much. Personaly I think its best to just assume any girl is into you until obviously proven otherwise. Also you shouldn't really care if this works out or not since its still so early. If it doesn't work out oh well don't let it get you down. Don't get so invested at this point.

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