stoploss11 Posted October 24, 2010 Posted October 24, 2010 How to cope when you're not sure you want to. No I don't want to suffer. I'm not crazy. How can I convince myself, that its for the best to walk away. Her circumstances and situation are abusive and unhealthy for her, but also unhealthy to me. I feel we are both better together, but because things haven't been and not sure they will be handled out of her fear they may never be, and now I am better off without her. I'm not happy about that.
Weekender Posted October 24, 2010 Posted October 24, 2010 I feel for you. This is definitely a tough situation to find yourself. My sister was in an abusive relationship for YEARS. When she finally left, it was for another one! It is almost like the abuser totally destroyed her self worth and she continues on from one abuser to another even though there have been plenty of stable nice guys who were interested in her. She rejected everyone of the nice ones. You must be careful and look out for yourself first.
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