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denise_xo Established Member

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HAHA - the boys feel pressured to put out now? What is the world coming to? I wouldn't mention it at all unless you find yourself making out, at which point you simply say that you want to know her better before the pants come off (but more suavely).

 

This.

I think a lot of women will appreciate it, but at the end of the day we're all individuals and it will just depend on her particular take on these things. I would certainly respect that kind of position but wouldn't be comfortable with a five month wait or something. But no sex on third date is perfectly fine.

yoga18 Established Member

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This.

 

It is possible though to give trust and get betrayal. So trust has to be returned to be fulfilled as real. Good luck to all on this one. My spirit has been damaged by someone with "borderline personality disorder" where I allowed myself to trust but it turned out to be that she just wasn't one person. There were schisms and one sub-identity worked against and denied each other. There's no trust possible--but you don't get to know this until after you've fought with reason against the unreasonable. I wouldn't wish my experience on anyone--seriously and to the heart.

 

Feelin frisky, I know this sadness all too well. I'm not sure if I will ever fully trust another human being. Sad to feel that way but I do.......sorry for your pain.

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I don't think it will be a problem talking about when the time is right. Maybe SHE is the one who wants to take things slow and I'm worried about nothing here. Besides I think she already has the idea I want to take things slow from the conversations we have had. I might have conveyed it to her already and I don't even know I did it :) Girls are much better listeners than guys, no? We sat somewhere romantic for awhile at night and it was the perfect time for the first kiss on the lips... which I was thinking about doing *sigh* and trying to get a response to see if she wanted to be kissed. Well, she wasn't letting me in. I did get a sweet goodbye kiss on the cheek at the end of the night though :)

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