supdawg1985 Posted October 24, 2010 Posted October 24, 2010 There's a girl that I met a year or so ago, and I don't really see her anymore, but I've grown to like her. I told her she was pretty and she seemed very flattered. I ended up telling her I'd like to see her, but she kindly turned me down, letting me know she had a boyfriend, and told me not to worry about my mistake of being intrusive. Since that time I have pretty much ignored her and decided I should move on...I've had too many girls in the past get me strung out, only for nothing to happen. The thing is, though, she seems to initiate contact from time to time, as if she wants to keep in touch. Of course I give a friendly response. In the meantime another girl has caught my attention, who I'm looking to get to know better, so I'm not reveling in one thing. What I'm wondering is what she is thinking and whether I should keep her in mind...
USMCHokie Posted October 24, 2010 Posted October 24, 2010 There's a girl that I met a year or so ago, and I don't really see her anymore, but I've grown to like her. I told her she was pretty and she seemed very flattered... Is this all you have to base on growing to like her...? ...she kindly turned me down, letting me know she had a boyfriend, and told me not to worry about my mistake of being intrusive. There's nothing to figure out. Keep getting to know the new girl.
hearttobreak Posted October 24, 2010 Posted October 24, 2010 Get to know the new one. Don't say you're pretty. Instead, say you have amazing eyes, or luxurious hair. Be specific. If she is in fact a pretty one, she hear's it all the time. If you focus in on a specific area, they like that. But please, do not say hey, I love your boobs or really nice ass. She'd pretty much not take that on a positive note. If she's wearing nice shoes, comment on that too. Women, for some strange reason, LOVE SHOES. I don't get it.
GooseChaser Posted October 24, 2010 Posted October 24, 2010 When you're intimate enough with them, though, it's usually okay to compliment any part of them. You just need a few boundaries when you're getting to know them to be respectful.
Author supdawg1985 Posted October 24, 2010 Author Posted October 24, 2010 [is this all you have to base on growing to like her...? ] Well, I definitely was initially attracted to her physically, but got to know her and felt we had some chemistry and had similar personalities. I just started finding myself thinking about her more and more. Trust me, I'm pretty picky when it comes to girls.
USMCHokie Posted October 24, 2010 Posted October 24, 2010 Well, I definitely was initially attracted to her physically, but got to know her and felt we had some chemistry and had similar personalities. I just started finding myself thinking about her more and more. Is this before or after you found out she already had a boyfriend...?
Author supdawg1985 Posted October 24, 2010 Author Posted October 24, 2010 It was before...since then I haven't made an attempt to pursue her, but I've been keeping her in mind. I know that I'm not going to put all my eggs in one basket though, so I'm exploring other options. I'm just wondering if she might be doing that somewhat as well, maybe even subconsciously, in a way not considered "cheating".
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