WowReally Posted October 23, 2010 Posted October 23, 2010 Hello all - it's been a bit. Im not looking for anyone's opinions Im just venting. So Im just here as my xMM leaves dodge in a few days. It truly is the end for us not that our contact has been the same for a couple of months. The distance between us has given me some perspective and I can confidently say he's not going back to the W out of true love but true love for the lifestyle. He's lied to her through couseling and he still hides his communications from her yet she still wants him back...they are meant for eachother. I guess I've dodged a bullet. The cycle will repeat itself - maybe not in a year or maybe even two but it will eventually and they'll be in the same situation again. It makes me sad on one hand but on the other hand I have to let the wrong person go to let the right person in. I hope you all find your conclusions soon!
pureinheart Posted October 23, 2010 Posted October 23, 2010 Hello all - it's been a bit. Im not looking for anyone's opinions Im just venting. So Im just here as my xMM leaves dodge in a few days. It truly is the end for us not that our contact has been the same for a couple of months. The distance between us has given me some perspective and I can confidently say he's not going back to the W out of true love but true love for the lifestyle. He's lied to her through couseling and he still hides his communications from her yet she still wants him back...they are meant for eachother. I guess I've dodged a bullet. The cycle will repeat itself - maybe not in a year or maybe even two but it will eventually and they'll be in the same situation again. It makes me sad on one hand but on the other hand I have to let the wrong person go to let the right person in. I hope you all find your conclusions soon! Bold, none of this is easy...it is just like any other R, and sometimes the only difference is is that it never got a chance to really play itself out. LOL, my conclusion is my beginning, and it's weird and a bit apprehensive. I know there is a need to prepare. I hear in my heart, "it's time to get ready for the good stuff"...and it's funny whenever I hear this I start major cleaning and home improvement projects. Get ready WR, as the worst is over and the best is yet to come, you have not seen your finest days yet, they are about to rush in and overtake you like the high tide on a full moon!
OpenBook Posted October 23, 2010 Posted October 23, 2010 I guess I've dodged a bullet. I have to let the wrong person go to let the right person in. Truer words were never spoken. And pureinheart is right - your "finest hour" is still ahead of you. Sometimes the way forward involves pain and intestinal fortitude... but it is SO worth it. YOU are worth it!! And it won't be this difficult forever, just for now. Onward and upward, WR. Onward and upward.
pureinheart Posted October 23, 2010 Posted October 23, 2010 Truer words were never spoken. And pureinheart is right - your "finest hour" is still ahead of you. Sometimes the way forward involves pain and intestinal fortitude... but it is SO worth it. YOU are worth it!! And it won't be this difficult forever, just for now. Onward and upward, WR. Onward and upward. Very powerful OB...and so simple it's scary! Fill our minds with these things (bold)...
20Seconds Posted October 23, 2010 Posted October 23, 2010 It makes me sad on one hand but on the other hand I have to let the wrong person go to let the right person in. Great thought, Wow I am hoping for the same. I am thinking, wouldn't it be lovely to find someone just for me, next time. Someone I can ring when I want, and who can ring me. Isn;t it funny how we get our expectations in these relationships managed down to such a point that a phone call becomes like a diamond ring / weekend in Paris / fifty bunches of red roses would in a normal relationship. Think what we've learned, though
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