ptah1206 Posted October 23, 2010 Posted October 23, 2010 So I am talking to a girl I met about a month ago and we have been talking everyday since then. As each day goes by, I want her more it seems. I can't get her out of my head. However, she seems to be sending me mixed signals. She offered to help me with some things at school and she did help me. She is always offering to help me with school or whatever I need. I do the same for her. She texts me first almost everyday, which leads me to believe she likes me. However, some days she just does not seem like she does. It's hard to explain, but I asked her to go to dinner with me this week and she said yes. Do you think she likes me? I really want to cuddle with her and kiss her, but I do not want to if she is not comfortable with it. I want to talk it over with her, but I do not want to ruin the friendship we have right now. Don't get me wrong. I like being friends with her, but I honestly like her more and more each day. We are in the same major at school and share many interests. She has said that she wants to go to certain places with me, such as sporting events and restaurants. Also, in the past, she has said that her ex screwed her over after saying that she was his soul mate. Does that have something to do with the mixed signals? If so, what should I do to help her get over him?
shayan Posted October 24, 2010 Posted October 24, 2010 be cool, don't be clingly, act cool. She is probably still ruminating over her ex and slightly heartbroken. Be confident and enjoy your time with her. During this period show her how awesome you are don't pretend or be fake, but display your genuine good qaulities. Be strong masculine, and you will probably win her over just through your actions. But realize that she may still want to be with her ex, and this can be problematic and make it impossible for her to come over to your side. For this reason do not become overinvolved or clingly. The more you step back and be confident and cool, the better things will turn out.
dreamingoftigers Posted October 25, 2010 Posted October 25, 2010 I think it is probably time to approach her and see if you are in the friendzone or not.
Slips715 Posted October 25, 2010 Posted October 25, 2010 The only thing you should remember is that you don't want to be friends with her, you want to date her. Be a man and be upfront about it, don't lie to yourself it's just wasting time. This is under the table advice, so don't criticize me for it, but act as if she wants to date you. Even if she is unsure, some girls just don't know what's best for them, so they get hung up on a-hole ex boyfriends and don't see a great guy right in front of them. Bottom line: Show her your best qualities and make her appreciate it because if you don't she will never see it. You are currently losing a race for her attention, so step it up, be a man and win.
LoveLace Posted October 26, 2010 Posted October 26, 2010 Well having a dinner set up is a great start. when she seems distant it's probably because of her EX and/or just trying not to seem too needy. But in saying she wants to do all those things with you, etc., I'm thinking she likes you If dinner goes well and there is some flirting and smiling, ask her if it's okay to kiss her afterward...or just go in for it, whichever you are more comfortable doing...
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